Guys, I was discussing with one of the bowl member and got that Man are more mind fucked now a days... If anyone have anything to discuss feel free to discuss.... DM available...

So I have been seeing a guy for 4 months. We have a pay disparity.. he earns less than I do (by quite a bit). He has mentioned a few times that he’s worried I’ll get bored of him when I know he can’t afford the same things I can. I think we are beginning to move past this, but now he’s starting to mention things like ‘I am really broke this month’, and last weekend he told me his mum has lost her job and he’ll have to probably pay her rent. I have a lot of sympathy for his situation … tbc

Have a crush on my co-worker. He asked me out to go rock climbing one-on-one after we were texting for a while and I acted awkwardly when we went because I didn’t know if it was a date (nothing was explicitly said). Now I’m stuck in this weird limbo state where things have fizzled out but I’m re-reading texts and think he might’ve actually had a crush too and I pushed him away. Ambiguity sucks.

Looking to settle a debate between myself and a few friends - at what point is it appropriate to ask someone you’re dating if they’re also dating other people? Relatedly, do you have an obligation to tell whoever you’re dating that you’re dating other people?

Deleted the dating apps again. Wonder how long I’ll last this time. 🤔

F 🐠 looking for a happy guy?

I am pretty funny tho not too pretty - 30 M NYC

First time dating after a life of work,studies and being a geek

(Any "padosan" fans get the joke abt starting at 30?)

Interesting debate with a colleague: which is more personal/intimate: oral sex or intercourse?

I got reprimanded by a man for having an uninspired point of view of a conference call. He then gave me his inspired POV...which was exactly the same. When I pointed that out he said, “huh. Maybe.”

Hey, where do you guys go for fun after work or the weekends? I'm trying to socialize as a young professional but also have a good time 😅 Taking all suggestions.

Is anyone interested in connecting over coffee?

How’s the dating scene in Austin? Any advice for a single 30 yr old Male who recently moved here?

What are the best sports bars to meet guys on a Sunday afternoon?

Where is the best place to watch football on Sundays and meet a single guy in his late 20s to mid 30s?

I feel like I am very naive and cannot read between the lines, so I can’t tell if someone is trying to fuck me over or not. This leads me to be extremely skeptical of others’ intentions, and makes me less confident that I can influence others, and in general really erodes my self-confidence. Does anyone else feel similarly? If so, how have you dealt with it?

Single 24 year old here. Recently joined Hinge. I am barely getting any activity. I'm a former OKCupid user and I always got something there. Do people not use Hinge or is there something wrong with me? I'm a fit average height guy and I am not ugly. Looking for LTR especially now in the time of Corona. Didn't bother with human interaction before tbh but this loneliness is creeping up. 😔

My natural instinct is to assume rejection if I have conflict with a partner or don’t think my feelings are reciprocated. I’ll try to bring it up with them, but I’ll say “if you want to end this feel free” so it doesn’t hurt me (and they can say what they really mean instead of sugarcoating). Someone told me today that they just assume I’m not interested because I always seem to “run” but I’m not sure how to bring up problems/feelings otherwise. How do you approach these hard questions?

Signed up for a matchmaking service a couple months ago after getting tired of the apps. And while I’ve been underwhelmed with their process so far, I finally have my first match date this weekend. Haven’t been on a date since pre-pandemic. And never been on a true blind date like this. Wish me luck.

23 F Maharashtra, wanted to try virtual dating.. not sure if its worth the time or not let sees

25 F in NYC. I was born in the US and raised between US and Middle East. Looking to meet people :)

For those of you who are SHRM CP certified. Can you please advise if the SHRM learning system is worth it? Are there other effective learning tools that are less expensive ?

Has anyone ever worked with Mark Pollard or Julian Cole? Are they as great as they seem?

So here in CA there is a lot of talk about certain jurisdictions doing virtual jury trials. As a firm we won’t agree to it and if push comes to shove we’ll take it up on. Writ. What is everyone else’s opinion?

Any good ICOs cmg up?

Beginning to invest. Which is better? Merrill edge or fidelity ? Have a BofA bank account and an employer Fidelity account for RSUs. Also have a TRoweprice 401k account from past employer.

I stopped contributing to my 401K for the last three months in order to pay off credit card debt. I am 28 and have about 68K in my 401K. Was this a smart decision? I want to get out of debt as quickly as possible and I have no student loans or car debt.

Will base jump from 120 - 145 make a significant difference in my saving? Offer has significantly less PTO and a lower 401k match. 32F with 400k saved, interested in buying a home soon in HCOL.

I’ve always been a big saver minimum 15% to maxing out my 401k since I graduated college. I’m married to someone who thinks 6% is enough and likes $$$ cars. Other than the cars, they dont really spend money. For the married 🐠, how do you have the conversation with them that what they are doing isn’t enough? I try to guide them and say you want the $$$ cars but the salary you have won’t get there and you’re going to have to find a job that gets them the salary…. Then the fight starts.

Rather specific question - best beef tartare in town?

Is it a bad idea to commute to work on the subway? Moving to Nyc in July and a little intimidated by the idea, given what’s in the news lately, but the rent within walking distance from work is a little below 1/2 monthly salary🥲

F 39 I’m officially on search for a husband (shamelessly). What do you guys like in a lady, what kind of look grabs your attention? What do I need to wear?? My male friends tell me I need more revealing clothes! 😂

Producer looking to move to Ohio. Any insights on where to look for work? Background in agency, production, live, sports, tv and film.

Thank you!

Why does everyone say the work in FDD is so much better than audit? I’ve been in the group for a few months now, and it seems to be just as bad if not worse.

12 years experience as a software developer. How much package should I expect from a MNC company in Toronto, Ontario, Canada?

For rent paid below 1 lakh there is no need to submit landlord's PAN. I have calculated based on my HRA and if I show rent paid as around 96k my tax refund will be around 13k.

However there is no rent agreement or rent receipts.

Will it be a problem later on if I show this in my ITR?

Which Big 4 is the best to be at regarding work culture and benefits? Especially during these tough times.

Thoughts on magnani shoes and boots?

Hello Men, do you still think, that you should switch to domain you like instead of what you are doing currently. Please tell why or why not. I know switching to a Domin we like will take us a bit back in our career but still want to know.....will you take the risk

Peeps, what's your fap frequency? (no of times Done daily/weekly)

There's no interesting bowl for women to discuss things they want

Is it normal to sleep only in your vest and briefs?

Guys thoughts on #NNN..??
Any 1 lost already..?

Best Clothing brands. Drop in your suggestions:

Shirts:
1. USPA
2. Peter England (Formals)
3. Allen Solly ( Comparatively cheaper than other brands)
4. Superdry
5. Levis

Polos:
1. Superdry
2. USPA
3. Calvin Klein
4. Allen Solly
5. Tommy Hilfiger

Tshirts:
1. Levis
2. Superdry
3. USPA

Wallets:
1. Tommy Hilfiger (Buy from Myntra)

Briefs:
1. Calvin Klein
2. Jockey - Only Tactel series

Trunks:
1. Jockey - Only Tactel series
2. Calvin Klein - Established series

Vests:
1. Van Heusen
2. USPA

⚠ OFF TOPIC ⚠
GYM 🦈 please suggest diet chart for fat loss (vegetarian) & (office going)

1. How can I build 6 pack abs on vegetarian diet and I'm not interested to take creatine or any cutting steroids. How much time will it take.

2. How much weight should I lift and how to improve weights in gym for weight training.

6 feet height
80kg weight
22% body fat
4 months gym

Has anyone tried PRP treatment for hair loss?
I don't have male pattern baldness, but patchy hair loss and doctors are saying two session of prp would be enough.

Is it good? Whether it restored your hairs?

My salary is 16LPA fix +10% variable pay. M i earning enough? Have a family of 3. Additional info- Rented house in Delhi, car emi

I am feeling like going for Pee again and again... Is it sign of Sugar...

Relaxed fit cargos or slim fit?

Wearing for the first time.
Do not want to look Chapri AF

Is it okay to trim your chest hair?

Note: Not the entire chest, just the hair visible in case your top 2 buttons are open/or the hair which is above your vest area.

Has anyone tried Polo Tshirts from Nautica?

Reviews?

I am trying to quit smoking since long but failed everytime.... I don't know now how to do that.... Do anyone have some good doctor or someone who can help in Pune...

Hello bros,
Need one suggestion. My close friend is gng to marry soon. So I need some suggestions to what I should give as a gift. Until now I gave gift with group. This time I'm giving by myself.
I can't afford expensive things.
Thanks in advance!!

my urine stream has become weaker than before, it takes time to start, is it start of any issue.

This platform has serious bug... Something fishy in it... Someday they may released buggy app and reveal our identity...

ab purposeless life jine me bilkul maza nahi aata... wahi roz ki chik chik ghar me, harami rishtedar aur office me stress aur politics.
kya karein kaha jayein...