Hey Fishes… I am married since 7 years and blessed with triplets 4 years back. Haven’t been intimate with my wife as we both are too much occupied with professional life, kids and house chores. We also dont live in India. We both want to but it just doesn’t work out. We are in mid 30s.
Recently I had an office party and there’s a female colleague of mine with whom I share a good bond like a friend. She’s a widow with 1 kid as she lost her husband and 1st kid to an accident 2yrs back.

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Zyada Paisa insaan ko andha bana deta hai! It's a shame what you did.

Now, ultra Modern pro max logon ke liye ye normal ho sakta hai, let them answer!

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As outside plessure increases your anxiety also increases along with fear of getting caught. Not right path to be in bro. Try to avoid

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More pragmatic advice: tie up all the loose ends, make sure the information trail does not reach your wife.. you are both in a vulnerable position; any information like this could devastate her emotionally; it’d get super messy with the kids involved.. end things cordially with this other woman.. keep trying with your wife and be more involved with the kids; as they’ll reach the 5 year mark, they’ll get more independent, your schedule may turn around then.. keep this as a happy memory of a thing you did so that your balls don’t burst!

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We were driving back with few other colleagues and her drop was the last. She offered to have a break and have some tea. I was just in her house we were having tea and some conversation started about intimacy. Don’t know what happened but we both kissed, probably smooched but later stopped as it felt a bit awkward for both of us and later I went back to my own home. In office everything felt normal as if nothing happened and we both were same as usual. One fine evening the female colleague came forward and said ‘I want to experience a bit more than kiss. Can we? I want to feel like a women and fill my desire and I know you too want. We will keep it casual and no commitments’ I stared her for a moment and just said fine with a smile and we did the same evening. We both felt nice. However now I am feeling if I am cheating my wife however out of fun or sarcasm she often mentions go make a gf and get intimate with her.
Any advices my fellow fishes. Is it fine or I should stop.

You need to apologize to your wife and go to marriage counseling. You should cut all contact with the other woman. The time you spent with her you could’ve spent with a date with your wife. Understand that your wife may want a divorce so be amicable about it.

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Op, talk to your partner about having an open relationship and if she's really ok with that thought or is she just kidding. Also, it can't be one way. You also have to agree that she might have ONS with others.

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