Hi Fishes,

Slight offtopic:

My younger brother seems to be very miser(kanjus) and he spends very less money. My problem with him is he doesn't do anything to the family (like buying/gifting something to parents occasionally).

Me on the other hand spends some money or gift something to the family etc..

He is only 25 and earning 35k per month only, but spending atleast 2k in some important occasions is not a big thing right? And also it is not like he doesn't like his...(continued in comments)

Ladies, did you change your last name after getting married? I’m worried about the impact it will have on my publications.

Single and childless but would like kids. High income and maxing out all tax advantaged accounts I can but was thinking of starting a 529 in my own name to be transferred to future kids. If I don’t have kids maybe transfer it to my nephew. Thoughts, pros, cons?

Girlfriend has very obvious high functioning anxiety and body image issues that she admits but thinks she doesn’t need therapy or medication and that reading self-help books will help her. It’s not changing in the last several years and it’s impacting our relationship. Anyone have experience with their SO dealing with untreated anxiety? I know I can’t control her but would like to express my feelings without sending her into a spiral. For context, I’ve been in therapy for 12 months and medicated

Who wants to be a millionaire?

Thoughts on buying a house now? Lease is up in January. Can finally afford to buy. But would it be better to wait until next year in case of recession -> foreclosure market -> better deals? WDYT

Max out 401k before contributing to taxable brokerage? Roth IRA is already maxed out.

Anyone start later in life? About to turn 32 and my retirement savings are sad.

Best HYSA with a good account opening bonus?

I feel like an idiot. For the past 3 years (26yo now) I have been electing the traditional 401k instead of Roth. I get 25% taken out pretax each paycheck. Given that I’m more likely to have a higher salary (currently 100k now) and therefore be in a higher tax bracket by the time I retire, shouldn’t I have elected Roth this entire time? 😩

Start raising cash family. Take some profits. 4/14 3:51 est

Anyone else catch Tesla today? After months of no trading and waiting for the right time I had 10 700c I bought Friday at $695 a piece and exited at 4K a piece for a profit of 33K. Time to stay composed and wait for the next high conviction setup

Other than a Tesla, what make and model has the best acceleration per dollar?

I just started a new job and am about to be 36. I want to start a family but I feel like I should be waiting due to this new job. However I don’t want to miss out. I’m thinking about freezing my eggs

I just had to send my husband away in an ambulance. I’m not allowed to go with him or even go to the hospital. I don’t know what to do. I can’t even be there for my husband.

What’s everyone using instead of Robinhood? I just learned of WeBull recently but am not sure it’s for me.

Why doesn't my wife get that it's just me and the great dane now. She making this awkward wanting some room in the bed.

I NEED HELP WITH CREDIT SCORE issues: Two months ago my credit score went down by 30 to 40 points due to dad missing credit card payment by a day (i got added to as authorized user on his credit card for me to build credit but now I’m filled with regret). I was devastated by it. This past month I have been making more payments and paid off my aug statement in full thinking it will boost my credit score. But I don’t know why it went down another 10 points. More below:

My kids were really upset with me when I told them that my job as an engineer did not mean that I drove trains for a living

Hello Fishes,

I have joined hcl on 24 th sep 2021 and my last working day here is 18th May 2022.
Today I received my provisional full and final settlement and the payable amount is negative -11454. They are recovering the full AMPB amount which I got from September months.
I have heard from this platform only that hcl stopped the recovery police but still I got the negative fnf.

First boyfriend i’ve had during the holidays and he’s away at home. I’m so bored 🙁😞

I've been trying to figure out why my paper is still marked as "in review" even though I submitted it 4 months ago. I even submitted a new version of the paper, and they said they'd review it within 2 weeks, but still nothing!

If I got 1/10000th of a bitcoin every time some dude on an app asks me if I like being an accountant... I'd be rolling in mad dough

Fishes honest opinion needed. Me and My so presently live in Arkansas, living in our first home with a child 4 year, both of us recently changed our jobs and have HHI ~ 420K, current mortgage 1600/month. We are looking to move to Dallas and thinking of buying a house ~996K with a 15% down. Questions -
1. Should we go for house of that budget? We can afford, but asking based on market.
2. Should we down 15% or just 5% ? Or go for 20% ?
*Getting a rate lock 4.25% 🤞🏼

IBM wants to retain me, manager told me told withdrawal the paper. But still didn't get the revised offer/promotion letter? So before withdrawal will not get yhe letter from ibm?

Is it easier to go from McK to BCG or Deloitte to BCG? If one is easier, how much easier? And do BCG recruiters ever poach from McK or is that a big no-no?

Dm if you are interested for a job at Deloitte 😊

What is an average pay for a clinical lead medical assistant in Philadelphia area?

Hi im having 3 yoe having 2 offer 1.Nice x+2 variable+1Joining bonus 2.Bitwise x+2 fix which one i should join plesae suggest in term of job security and learning wise

Hi Fishes,

I have been selected at citi bank.

Yoe - 5.7 years,
Cctc - 17.85 lakh fixed
What should be expected ctc for c11 position?? And what is c11 position??

What are current life science boutiques offering employees with 0-2 yoe out of undergrad? Trinity seems significantly behind market norm

Im a Design Engineering from Mexico but Im also an American citizen, I would like to know how can I get my wet-stamp and if I need it… I have my degree from Mexico but I’m not not familiar with the process I have to follow to work as an Engineer in the States

Need to move to another location, and breaking of the apartment rent agreement is so outrageously expensive. What’s the best way to find someone to sublease /signs the lease in my place in Chi cont

Can someone please suggest in what range does Barclays offer for a VP Role in the UK.

Anyone have a CFE designation and taken the test recently? Debating about getting it wasn’t sure if it’s worth it.

Hi Fishes, I have Few Offers from decent companies and my joining date is 13th July. I would be sending out regret mails to all companies which i am not joining. Just to help them out and anyone who is looking out for changing job with less than 15 days notice period, please dm me i will refer you in those companies along with regret mails.
The tech stack is Dot Net Developer, MVC, Asp. Net, .net Core , EF , Web APIs
Experience Should be 3-5 Years
Most of these offers are from Pune, Maharashtra

What agencies are hiring financial analyst

Guys, ditch your briefs and trunks.

Switch to boxer briefs. They're the best.

Someone recommended me them 2 days back and I wonder why did I not know about this since past 7-8 years.

Thank me later 😂😂

Id like everyone to drop a few tips on how should they be a high valued man.

Thanks!

There's no interesting bowl for women to discuss things they want

Boys, don't spoil your goals behind holes.

Which is the good budget friendly perfume??

I have premium one from Boss Hugo... I kept it for special occasions 😜😜

Hi Friends,
Me and my girlfriend both live in the same city, working from home, living with our respective families.

Before covid and wfh, we were in gurgaon and we used to go to each other's places to have some "private time"

It looks like a distant luxury now.
Any ideas of what can be done? Anyone facing a similar issue who got any resolution?

Peeps, what's your fap frequency? (no of times Done daily/weekly)

my urine stream has become weaker than before, it takes time to start, is it start of any issue.

Need your guidance. I am trying to learn driving. Joined a driving school and practised on their vehicle for 10 days and on my vehicle for 10 days. However, still I don't have the confidence to drive. What should I do to start driving confidently

Is it okay to trim your chest hair?

Note: Not the entire chest, just the hair visible in case your top 2 buttons are open/or the hair which is above your vest area.

Is it normal to sleep only in your vest and briefs?

Bhai log. T20 Cricket Worldcup start hone wala hai. Thoughts? Are you guys excited? Kya lagta hai India ke chances ke baare mei?

Kya chal raha dosto nind ni aa ri yaar😂

Has anyone tried PRP treatment for hair loss?
I don't have male pattern baldness, but patchy hair loss and doctors are saying two session of prp would be enough.

Is it good? Whether it restored your hairs?

Best Clothing brands. Drop in your suggestions:

Shirts:
1. USPA
2. Peter England (Formals)
3. Allen Solly ( Comparatively cheaper than other brands)
4. Superdry
5. Levis

Polos:
1. Superdry
2. USPA
3. Calvin Klein
4. Allen Solly
5. Tommy Hilfiger

Tshirts:
1. Levis
2. Superdry
3. USPA

Wallets:
1. Tommy Hilfiger (Buy from Myntra)

Briefs:
1. Calvin Klein
2. Jockey - Only Tactel series

Trunks:
1. Jockey - Only Tactel series
2. Calvin Klein - Established series

Vests:
1. Van Heusen
2. USPA

Bhailog jate hue balo ko kaise roka jaye

Guys thoughts on #NNN..??
Any 1 lost already..?

My salary is 16LPA fix +10% variable pay. M i earning enough? Have a family of 3. Additional info- Rented house in Delhi, car emi

Is it worth going for AM?