Hi fishes this is a critical situation for me so please help. M in a java development project for a client and I am very weak in that zone. So I started taking help from my colleagues he also helped me but now he started showing likeness towards me and in the fear of this that he will stop helping me I also faked the likeness. I already have a boyfriend and now I am not feeling good and also have fear of my career. What can I do please help me.
I am really scared.

Anyone know how much a full time nanny in the Austin area would cost?

What to do when you have a crush on your team lead?

I'm a product engineer and it's hard to turn off work mode at the end of the day, I think of how products *should* be packaged when I'm shopping and can't understand why my wife doesn't care 🤷

My girlfriend is willing to break off our entire relationship because she found out my mom doesn't approve of her. We have no issues between each other but she said she can't be with someone who's family doesn't like her.

I’ve 90 min for ELA & 6 kids. I need to teach phonics, curriculum (has 0 phonics), & goals & they need freq. breaks. Admin’s making me use said curric. Any ideas?? Small groups and rotate? TIA!

I wish I could tell my lead how much i like him.

PS: He's engaged.

How have you combated your fear of rejection? I fixate on such small things as when my friends, for example, reject plans I have made. This definitely makes me more averse to putting myself out there and makes me ruminate on past perceived failures, which are clearly not good for personal growth

I had a breakdown on Saturday at my second job (youth group advisor). My parents had to come pick me up, at age 35. I couldn't deal with people being nice to me -- my job is just so frustrating.

She doesn't know the real reason why I'm lukewarm about kids: I don't think she's matured enough. I'm trying to plan for retirement and a house, but all she wants is her next overseas vacation

What are some myths you all have heard to figure out if you’re having a boy or girl?

I often feel that if you have a Associate product manager profile name in your linkedin, people show less acceptance of linkedin request as compared to a Product Manager name.

You get associate-level respect. Associate matlab intern samajh rakha hai...

Best self-care tips for dealing with loneliness/sadness this time of year? This is my first Christmas without my mom and it just feels like nothing will ever be the same again 😭. If you’ve lost a parent can you give me advice on getting through the holidays? Being a parentalish figure to my students is both healing and heartbreaking.

Is it okay to join a new team and say "I expect your Support to myself" when you know you're not joining as a lead to the team.??

Random question, my boss wants me to become a notary so I can handle notarizing all of the official documents myself. Has anyone else been asked to do this for their employer? Is it ethical?

I don't have any friends in banglore. It is hard for me to find friends cause i am always that aloof kid who in addition is not straight so can't even bond with my teammates. How do people live like this. Even my flatmates don't talk . : (

Where do you over 50 ladies shop for work clothes? Need a bit if a wardrobe refresh and looking for ideas.

Hi all,

My boss makes jokes about me being from a different country whenever there is a work meeting or a gathering with coworkers, even though he knows where I am from. This usually occurs when I meet new work-related people or for example if I am in a situation that involves ethnic related subjects.

What is this? This is normal?

Stereotyping?
Racism?

The first time I ignored that, but now it has become a pattern and is bothering me now. I am south-American working in the UK.

are you open about your sobriety with colleagues?

Any particularly effective strategies to manage client asks to treat everything as a zero markup pass through?

if someone joined EY gds within how many days he/she can add their dependents???

in which month??

senior producer, denver, quoted at 85-90k

currently in LA, mid level at 90k.

are they low-balling me? makes no sense to me that salaries in denver are as low as everyone says.

What is the rules and regulations in Ny state on having the majority of a class that are 3 yrs old and you have one 2yr old. Would this be considered a preschool room or a toddler room?

I'm an game developer who trying to make a great portfolio and what to get some advise on what I should be doing to make one. What should I be creating?

I am looking for a new job at the end of a long career. I have excellent experience in IP and Supply Chain Management. I've been fortunate to be in a high-paying position in the Los Angeles area and I rarely see comparable positions posted. The comparable positions at my company are filled by one of the big executive search firms. Any recommendations for finding the rare executive-level legal positions or for landing on the radar of the big executive search firms would be much appreciated!

So hard to date while being a consultant. Any luck fellow fish ?

Is knowing how to communicate a compatibility issue or can it be learned?

Anyone Manhattan based and want to catch the sprint race at a bar later today?

What is McK London WFH policy now? Is it still work from home any number of days of the week you want and project allow or have to go in a couple of times a week?

Anyone in B4 M&A tax left to get a JD? Currently a CPA and considering the jump.

Please help me with best course names to learn Python on LinkedIn and Udemy?@

Hi, how do I start a career PHAMACOVIGILANCE ?
Really hoping for some advice.
Thanks.

Recently accepted a temp role as an HR admin for a former employer. Previously interned there & left because my supervisor did not have any growth opportunities planned out for me; this was in spite of my stellar performance, as reflected in my 90 day review. She has since left the company, but there’s crazy turnover in the company & in the HR department in particular. Just that an HR coordinator resigned. Is it worth going back into a dumpster fire w/ no leadership to gain experience?

Hi Fishes,

I am 3.6 years experienced QA Test Analyst looking for referrals and job change with good compensation
Please help with refferal and openings
Thanks everyone

Do married man have rights to fine Date😉😉

Any thoughts abt married couple ?

Fishbowl Tinder ban Gaya ? Harassment k Case hue Toh ???

Hi Guruji,
How to find date in WFH scenario?

Any married person in this bowl need guidance 😥

Someone once said, if you are entrepreneurial enough, any app can be used as a dating app. I see that happening here on fishbowl when i came across this bowl 😂