Hi, I need some professionalism advice: I just recieved an MBB offer in a relatively small office. A few months back I was seeing a guy from that firm's office but it fizzled out. Now that I'm likely to join the firm, should I give the guy a heads up or let him be caught off-guard?

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You should both be mature enough to separate your professional lives.

If it just fizzled ended on fine terms, could be a good to let him know you’re joining so you can get some advice and start networking

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Depends how it fizzled out.. like mutual ghosting or one sided

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More his side than mine.

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Did you seek the job because of him? Are you interested in getting back with him?

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1) No. 2) I'd be down haha

If it Fizzled Out Amiably then why say anything. If It died horribly and he sees it as you dumped him or he is still into you then I wouldn't say anything. In fact I would never say anything ever about some past romance, fling whatever it was as you say it fizzled out, so hopefully he is a cool dude and he will play it cool as well ! Leave it in the past and don't say anything as it can be misinterpreted know matter how innocent you're words and sentiments are !

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