Hinge app - first question asked - are you religious....lol why do men ask this question? Do y'all just wanna bang? I have my religion shown on my profile so...it's likely I am....

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I met my fiancé on hinge ♥️

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Awww congrats! 😊❤

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Alternatively, maybe he’s religion is very important to him and he’s wondering if the same is the case for you?

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Makes sense. So…. How you doin?

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Speaking as an atheist man, it is likely the first question I’ll also ask if I see religion mentioned in someone’s profile. Huge red flag for what I’d be looking for in a partner. Has nothing to do with getting in your pants.

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M1 - exactly lol idk what is going through this guys head. 🤷‍♀️ on to the next.

I’ve never had someone once ask me that

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That is very interesting, I’m not sure how I would reply

I mean he could just be a weirdo?

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If you mention religion in your profile it’s not really surprising if someone asks about it.

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Most people bring up something from your profile in an intro conversation. You chose to list religion in your dating profile which is out of the ordinary so I’m not sure why you are surprised people ask about it.

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Seriously? I’m a guy and I never ask that question first, if I ask it at all

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Lol good. I wouldn't have minded if he asked later - but the first question - that's a little weird lol

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I've asked that question after a brief relationship with someone who was super religious - for me, it's nothing to do with getting in her pants. It was more about the activities we did / would do - she was all about attending religious activities (church together on Sundays, bible studies once a week, fellowship meetings once a week, etc). I'm not interested in that, so I ask that question.

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Lol fair - but if it was a similar story like yours I'd understand but its very different. How one perceives the question changes depending on when it is asked.

What’s hinge?

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You and me both. Perhaps too old.

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There are a lot of weirdos on the apps rn ...hang onto your standards until the world is normal!

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Op - if you don’t mind me asking, what religion did you indicate on your profile?

Does it matter? Not imo 🤷‍♀️

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I have a friend who is a hard-core atheist and would never date someone who is religious so for some people it is it a dealbreaker

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Anything you put in your profile is fair game to ask about. I've asked a similar question many times and it had nothing to do when trying to hook up.

I see you're getting triggered by it being the first question and honestly who cares. Would you rather they ask some cheesy pickup line?

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