Hinge is showing me a most compatible match with a woman I went on a couple dates with over a year ago. I ended things at that time but in a better spot now for dating. Should I try to rematch???

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I went on a date that I thought was great with a guy. Then he told me he was too busy with work to date. He reached out 6 months later to ask me out again. I definitely felt like if he hadn’t thought I was worth effort before, he was just circling back because he’d run out of options so I said no immediately. Maybe she’s more understanding since you were going through something but I’d expect her to turn you down.

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Trueeee I’m not super worried about it but would be nice to reconnect to possibly explore if it could have been something more.

Otherwise I gotta meet new people that I don’t know and I always get super nervous before a first date 😔

DO IT

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If you already dated, why wouldn’t you reach out via phone instead of trying to match on a dating app?

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This wasn’t a bad idea R&D, I just ended up messaging on hinge so just going to leave as is.

But I got a screenshot so if we match I can call it out later lol

Update: she accepted the match! 🫨🫨🫨

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See if I can rekindle things from here lol

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Can you tell us more about why you ended things last time?

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You were honest and didn’t ghost her, so she might be open. If I had a good time with you I would be open to a second chance. Be prepared to discuss what you’ve done to be in a better place for being over your ex.

Yes reach out!

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To can anyways reach out! Just understand that she may or may not be interested.

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OP, I'd go for it. I've reconnected with men I dated in the past. As long as you didn't ghost or treat her poorly in the end, I think you're fine. Just be prepared for all the outcomes.

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Definitely prepared for all outcomes!

Do it. If she is a female version of Joey from friends, she may not even remember. In that case, you will have an upper hand.

The problem is she may not remember but she will keep thinking why do I not like this guy.

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