Hiw does one’s mental health reflect their identity ?!

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Are you suggesting that mentally unstable people are more likely to have identity issues?

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I'm curious what you mean by that? Do you mind elaborating on the question?

Not sure what you mean with this question but I'll give this a whirl.

Let's take a hypothetical person - Fakey McPerson

Fakey McPerson is non binary, masculine presenting, born as female at birth, transgender (has not yet transitioned). Fakey uses they/them pronouns. Fakey McPerson is of African American descent on their mother's side and Puerto Rican descent on their father's side. Fakey mc person also portrays common signs of intergenerational trauma. When you get to know Fakey, they are a lovely person who enjoys knitting, swimming, and being outdoors. Fakey also enjoys spending time with their cat.

When most people see Fakey McPerson, they see a black transgender man, who is a little moody (probably because of all of the micro aggressions).

So the mental component would be Fakey's mental reality vs what most people see.

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