How did you cope with lawyering while pregnant? Did you stay on your medication?

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I stayed on them and all three kiddos are fine

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💕 Thank you so much for sharing. I was hoping to hear this. 🙂

F because I have been wondering this for so long lol

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I went off meds and I asked for a lighter case load. I don’t recall messing anything up but everything just took longer

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I also sipped maximum of half of cup of coffee during the day. And only sipped when I needed a boost.

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If I'm ever pregnant again, I'm shopping around until I find a doctor who can help me stay on my meds.

I was unmedicated during my first pregnancy and it was hell. I then met my son's pediatrician who believes that the unmedicated parent poses a greater risk to the child compared to risk created by med exposure in utero and through breastmilk. My gut tells me this is absolutely true. Without my meds, I struggled to drive safely, for example. With my toddler in the car, no way I'm risking that.

I hope you can find a solution that works for you. Keep us posted?

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My doctor said she has helped many women manage their meds through pregnancy. She said it’s actually more healthy because you make better decisions. Also following because I would love to hear more. ☺️

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For some context, I have an almost 2 year old. I went off my meds for the entire pregnancy and never thought twice about taking it. I struggled but I was only at the firm for 3 months when I got pregnant. My work load was light. I had a recent miscarriage at 8 weeks. I was off my meds since I tested positive (so about 5 weeks). It was absolute misery. This time around my workload is extremely heavy. I have no clue how I’m going to survive without committing malpractice.

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Literally me last year. I went off my meds, and it was miserable. Stay on a low dose and find and OBGYN that works well with you and your psychiatrist to manage your care.

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I went off my meds when pregnant. I worked with a therapist doing some cognitive behavioral therapy and used a huge white board (in my living room, during COVID) to write down everything I had to keep track of. I also told the key members of my team very early because I knew I would need their support.

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