How did you find out what you want in life? Feeling lost mid-career..

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Try looking outside of work

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Make lots of money and then when you have enough to not to worry think about what’s youd like to do since money isn’t the issue.

I’d have no answer, then work isn’t the answer and might as well keep making money.

Might have to try hobby.

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I just read Untamed by Glennon Doyle. She talks about finding your purpose and people. It’s terrific

Try finding your “ Why” and align your work/company with it. I suggest Simon Sinek’s works on the definition and process of Why, How, and What.

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