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Saying no. And picking and choosing. I also add slots of time and weeknights for myself. As an introvert who has a different circles in work and life, this helps me from getting burnt out by over socializing. My s/o is an extrovert and will encourage me to give up some of my “me time windows” in good faith but I have learned to protect my boundaries.

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