How do you frame a conversation with your leader that a counterpart is causing an undue amount of stress due to their mood swings, outbursts, and general gas lighting.

It's affecting our team A LOT.. And as someone that suffers from anxiety, they are REALLY affecting my health.

*I've even considered seeking help through our employee EAP program, but finding it hard to describe the situation in a more professional way than 'a colleague is being really toxic and I don't know what to do'

Advice?

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