How do you know if you’re attractive?
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You look in the mirror...? ... is this a trick question?🤔
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I have a friend who is incredibly attractive and has a magnetic personality. One thing I notice is the way random people go out of their way to help her. They will upgrade her hotel rooms for free, give her gym guests free gym passes (there are guest fees), gush when she thanks them, etc.
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Being able to influence others is a big one. When you find your confidence, it becomes a magnet.
When I say “excuse me” to women I don’t know they usually smile
If I’m walking on the sidewalk toward someone and they cross the street instead of pass me by. I know I’m hideous
I’m a woman. Other women either stare or glare at me, and it’s easy for me to get dates.
This is wild. I'm conventionally attractive and women don't glare at me unless I'm actively rude to them.
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I think attractive people generally tend to have people around them constantly. They generally don’t follow others, people follow them.
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Cis F 🐠 here, my experience—
- men on airplanes interact
- women in hotel bars interact
- in general, people willing to include attractive people in their orbit, regardless of their actual usefulness to the outcome
This stops happening at work pretty quickly because usefulness is a more valued quality. But the attractive ppl at work get invited to team dinners with leadership regardless.
Peoples willingness to buy me free stuff. And put up with my bs.
The number of people who talk to me in unsolicited fashion.
And then there are the people who outright say it. Even when I feel I look disheveled.
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I have ASD/on the spectrum. I have no idea. I'm not being critical of myself or anyone else, I just don't know these things. I never know if someone is attracted to me, flirting, etc. I eventually figure it out on an individual basis when the other person asks why I haven't made a move, signaled back, or just seem oblivious to obvious things. Somehow I still manage to go on coffee dates with other/new people a handful of times a month, but it's usually just a one and done date 🤷♂️
You just know lol! It’s a feeling that comes within you. There are some morbidly obese people out there wearing crop tops and I appreciate their confidence!
Do you really think it has no bearing on physical attractiveness?
I think I'm super attractive, but never felt like anyone treated me differently, so mostly likely I'm not. But I like how I look and feel confident. I have my insecurities in other things than my face.
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If they maintain eye contact - that’s a huge tell as a woman.
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C3 amazing response - hopefully that isn’t the case! Should have clarified that men maintain eye contact painfully long in one on one convos.
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There’s physical attractiveness and personality attractiveness. If you’re only physically attractive, you’ll be getting tons of matches on dating apps (mainly for the reason of the other person wanting to fuck you) and go on a lot of dates but lack the long term ones (5 years+) or have trouble getting married.
Gender doesn’t really matter in this case, whether you’re M/F, if you lack the attractive personallity then people will only want to date you for sex which is usually indicated by < 1 year relationships
What is ASD?
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