How do you ladies deal with alpha male engineers who think they know better than you (even though you've been in the field for over 10 years)? 🙃

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Hmmm I always had wrestling 🤼‍♀️ when I started in a new company.
My biggest one was with the oldest engineer (50yrs+), he was very mean and could almost feel at time condescend. I think everytime I play the confrontation game I lost, so I decided to try to understand him more and book a bit of time aside.
Turns out he just wanted to feel heard and to have a bit of attention, we end up really good colleagues and he would always support me in stakeholders meeting.
Sometimes people can seem to be a certain way and turn out they are not.

If it’s the boys club? I never seen this anywhere else than on the senior stakeholder ( business side), type ex tech who think too high of themselves.

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I love that it ended in a friendship but sorry it was rough at the beginning!

I just keep pushing forward. I don't have the time or energy to educate ignorant colleagues about equality. Ignore them and just keep being you.

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Honestly, I ignore them. As long as I have been in this field there have been and probably always will be men like this. I try not to stroke their ego and just don't let it get to me.

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Remind myself that they go home to play video games alone.

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They're not worth your time so don't pay him any mind. Just keep doing you to prove them wrong. Preserve your energy.

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