How does one take a MH day off? The stigma?

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I usually text the boss and email everyone on my team that I don’t feel well. However, I think we have a really good MH culture. My boss actually puts time on ppls calendar when he sees them stressed and sends a few bucks for coffee and says take an hour, chill. I usually use about 4 mental days a year (1xqtr

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