How have you dealt with a leader showing favoritism to certain team members?

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It happens literally everywhere so you have to find someone who values you and go somewhere where you are the favorite

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Totally!!

Yea sadly I don't know a single person who hasn't experienced that at their job. It seems like every single place I have worked there are managers that seem to play favorites and have a little inner circle. If you aren't part of the inner circle then you are on the outs.

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Yup !! My manager went out her way to pay someone for days they didn’t even work … after I did payroll … But it was beyond favoritism … is was more RACIST!!!

Yup !! This person couldn’t do any wrong … I was scared to go to hr .. even though I had proof … because the days this person paid for … I had actually worked those daysbecause we was short staffed in clinic !!! … it’s WILD what people get away with !

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This will happen everywhere and all managers are guilty.

Absolutely. I detested when an old manager of mine ate into our 1:1 because her 1:1 with her “favorite” went long because they just joked around and goofed off.

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