How long should I, 30M, chat on a dating app before asking a girl out?

I realise that while Ive had a few good matches and chatted for 2-3 days, it fizzles out. Its a bit of a struggle maintaining momentum without meeting in person.

Woman I went on one date with keeps me informed on what she's doing. I.e. Seeing her girlfriend or on her way to a birthday party. Not used to this level of transparency after just one date. We do have a second date planned. Thoughts?

When you’re the only woman in a meeting and literally not one dude makes eye contact with you when you speak 🙄

Question: do guys like glasses on women?

Is it irrational for me to get an “ick” for this?

I went on a “date” recently. I paid for the tab as they were going to the bathroom. As we were leaving they said “thanks for lunch” — I was hoping they’d at least ask to Venmo me half as a kind gesture. Following lunch we grabbed dessert. I was hoping they’d offer to cover dessert since I covered lunch but it didn’t happen.

I am fine w/ paying but I was hoping the gesture would at least be presented… am I crazy?

How is dating in Jax? Apps seem to suck. 26M here trying to date or just to make new friends

Who’s around tonight for a fun time? M searching for F

36/M/ Muscular and Fit - any single ladies want to grab a drink or a coffee and a great laugh (guaranteed) in Chicago Or NY then please DM me.

Why is the ROI in online dating so miserably low?

How to handle your own procrastination? Any tips/advice?

24yr old female working in NYC (if that ever happens again) who's really just looking for someone to laugh with. The cynic in me is often overtaken by the joy I get from doing small things to (..cont)

Been single for 7 months from a long term relationship. I still don’t feel motivated to date, I just don’t think I’m ready. I also don’t know if I’ll be ready soon. At what point should I be “worried"

Once when I was waiting tables, I had a guy pay me cash. The change was 45 cents, which I didn't give back to him because like who wants that. He then asked where the change was, and when I explained that I didn't give back the loose change, he made a big stink about how dollars and cents matter and didn't leave me a tip. He was a republican staffer on capitol hill.

I haven’t seen a group that caters to this specific age range, so here we go :) don’t be shy. Share your info and let’s connect!

How's the LGBT dating scene at HBS? Are most people single or partnered

29M single looking to meet some new people and grab some drinks !

Sweet and salty 47 yr old single female. Looking for a funloving, occasional companion to divert attention to fun things from the daily travails in consulting. 🍿🍫

Looking for a suggestion for a date spot that would be convenient and a good halfway meeting point: i’m in Murray Hill and my date is coming from Astoria. I usually have my dates meet me here when they live in Manhattan but I think somewhere halfway would be more fair in this case. This will be a first date and it’s probably just drinks but might end up being dinner also. Ideas?

What's dating like in SF? New to the area.

Being said, there are just very 'few' members for Chennai location and apparently don't have their team members from Chennai, I thought it'd be amazing to have a meet up - for making friends, and network so we feel less lonely. Any thoughts and suggestions?

Any female bi here? 😊

What other creative outlets do you have outside of your job? Not necessarily side hustles, might just be something you do just for fun or creative nourishment?

Anyone from the Edelman NY brand team here? I’d love to hear about the work/what you look for in new team members.

Can someone please tell me about the type of work in SC pay project for Java Developer?

How much does registered nurse make ?

had anybody tried to buy media - specifically OOH in NYC - for a friend or colleagues small business?

I’ve very fortunate to have a new job. I wanted WFH, but I guess it wasn’t in the cards. Do you think people who work from home are that much happier?

ACDs: What do you add to your book when you’re managing/providing oversight vs. actually writing?

Please help me to get 11 likes to enable DM
Thanks in advance 🙏

What is Accenture entry level salary for a consultant ? 80 Base + Bonus ?

Hi EY Agents,

Any idea how much time EY take to release an offer letter .
I have given L1 and L2 rounds for EY after that I haven't received a response.

If you have an idea about the possibility please let me know.

How is the work life balance for Data science role in CFR at Amex?

Any had any luck with getting off cycle raises? I requested an increase outside of performance review. From a HR standpoint, do you know why this very hard to get?

Guy stood me and my friends up (he’s with his friends), then texted us 3 hours later to come to a different bar where he and his friends are, and apologized profusely. Said no. Do I forgive him tomorrow?

Hi guys,
How much we can expect for 4 to 5 yrs
exp sap abap consultant in present market
Current ctc is 9 fixed overall 10.8
Also any good sap companies in market

I lived in tampa in my early 20s and am now in my late 30s and looking to move back. One of the reason I left is because I felt I had too much energy for the city for a single young professional, but now husband is from there and we have a kid but we are both social people. Do you guys find it easy to meet interesting people and has the city gotten any more fun?

Starting apartment hunting in NYC soon. Any tips and recommendations for studios & 1 bedrooms in the city in terms of price range, ROI, neighborhood, down payment, best time to invest etc.

How important is QBI for REG?

I think most people come on here because they’re lonely. Thoughts?

So physically and mentally tired, I don't know how long I can keep up with work anymore. Told my senior management that I'm burning out, only to be blessed with another secondment. I now have two going at the same time, plus other client work, new business work, and managing scroundels.

Am I going crazy? I feel like my close friend is always trying to “one up” me in conversation. Any time I make a point, they will go out of their way to prove I’m wrong with some sort of stat or evidence. It’s like they need to have the last say.

They try to make me look bad at times without noticing. I don’t know how to approach this as we are all in a pretty tight friend group.

Already slept through the first half of the work day. Happy Monday !

I wish you could leave a text message unread. Sometimes I forget to respond when I first receive it.

Please, share some tips to deal with work stress. I'm getting crankier more than ever with the huge amount of workload. I was not like this, but I'm so tired of the mentality "Send it to Paul, he can solve it" (Paul is my fake name). New hireds cant do the job, old seniors are quiting like birds...

How much do you tip in an higher priced restaurant? Went for dinner last night for 2. The bill was $220ish and I tipped 30%. My friend said I tipped too much and that he would've only tipped 10-15% because the price was higher. Thoughts?

I get so annoyed when people type “PwC” as “PWC” and I don’t even work there

I never doubted myself, but I doubted you
I'm tired of looking at myself in my rear view

Any book recommendations that are must reads/made a significant impact on you?

I just want to make enough money to afford a facelift on top of my regular bills 🥲

I just got a tinder match with a verified profile of a fucking hot girl

I never seen such hotness in my life. I am nervous now 🥵

If you had a choice, would you live in Chicago or NYC?

Deeply afraid of being married to someone like the girl in sex/life on Netflix

The only reason I ever pursued casual sex (a couple times when I was 17-19) was to not get my heart broken. It always sucked and was so boring. I don’t understand when people say they want sex with no emotions. It’s the best part.

I work a 30 hour a week job in tech making great money and have my manager’s trust. Told him today I might be leaving for an MBA (have yet to pay the deposit) and he was supportive. Great place to work and now I’m sad. Idk if taking out loans for this degree is worth it now lol

Is it a red flag if someone says they don’t believe in self help books like Atomic Habits, Attached, etc?

Bored as heck in my relationship. We barley talk. Don’t do anything together, just watch TV every night and on weekends…. What do you do with ur partner? Do y’all even have anything to talk about? I hope this isn’t how a long term relationship is supposed to be I cannot spend another 50 years doing this

Why did I just listen to that Jeffrey Bezos song. Stuck in my head. 🤦‍♂️

I have been living in the same building for over 11years now and I just found a shortcut from train station to my building while I was looking for a parking spot last night 🤦🏻‍♂️