How should I deal with this toxic boss? A senior lead likes to reign with terror. She would call people out in meetings and gives really harsh feedback in front of everyone. When people try to defend themselves she keeps going with her criticisms. It’s always her way, or it’s the wrong way. I’m sick of her behaviour and with burnout, I just can’t be bothered to rationalise with her … but at the same time I don’t want her or other people to think I did something wrong . What should I do?

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Quit.

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You could try going to HR. Or you could try saying you would prefer to get this type of feedback in private. I don’t know either of those things will do you any favors or solve the problem. I’d recommend leaving as soon as you can.

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Look for another job ASAP. If this person has been with the agency a while then it’s likely someone at the top us protecting them.

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I’ve quit ! After hearing this is very common behaviour for her and she’s still here after multiple people flagging her toxic behaviour

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