How to know if you have ADHD?

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You are constantly distracted (you open your mailbox to answer a mail but decide to structure your inbox instead). You constantly forget things (todos, meetings, dates, etc), lose things of forget where you put them. You are master of procastination and you get bored very fast when you start something new (job/project/ sometimes even relationships). You have a fearful-avoidant attachment style. You are very sensitive with feedback and get easily irritated. You constantly interrupt people and its hard to wait until people finish talking before you say what you have to say, especially if its something you are passionate about. You take more risks without properly calculating the consequences. You are impulsive (finances, behavior, etc). Did I miss something?

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You get bored easily when you’re doing something you’re not interested in… otherwise if you’re passionate about it you put your all into it

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I have lost motivation…

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You won't be able to to much during the day. You will constantly be distracted.

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A doctor tells ya

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How to lead a normal life with it?

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OP I was diagnosed late in life. You need to see a therapist and ask for an evaluation. If qualified they send you to a psychiatrist then they determine if meds are a good or bad idea for you. Dont ask only and schedule that appointment. Took me 23 years..

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You only do well in what you care about.

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