I am in a toxic relationship. She is daring enough to beat a 2y kid, no mercy to anyone's mistakes, purely money minded - used to check my statements every week. Miser: Never been to trips, she's working having huge balance but not spending a penny for family. Making problems if I contacted my family. Denying marriage pleasure for almost 3 years. She is dare enough to do anything to make her decision work. Applied for divorce under cruelty, she denied. Feeling suicidal, any one living like this?

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Just be yourself man. The judiciary is also sick as they are biased towards women. I would advice record proofs and then apply for divorce..

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