I am struggling today. I want relief from how low I feel today. I just want to go to the bar and turn it all off. I have 33 days or so.

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thank you everyone. made it through lunch
that's my bewitching hr. I'm going to get an ice cream at 3pm. Thank you all so much

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One day at a time. A night at the bar isn’t worth all the hard work you’ve put in today. If you need to talk 732-500-4248

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You’ve got this. I’m at day 35, so I’m right there with you. Right now it’s like being a burn victim, every feeling feels extra tough. But it passes. I’ve had extended sobriety in the past and I know firsthand that it passes. Wait it out. Sit. Stay.

Sending love and strength your way.

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Where are you located? I’m in nyc. Feel free to call or text me. 2019265846

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We love you!

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Good luck OP! Stay strong!

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In moments of weakness I will ‘re-play the tape,’ and remind myself where it will all end. Personally I find that to be quite an effective deterrent.
Stay strong OP

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OP - how are you doing? Update?

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