I found out recently that I’m pregnant and I’m really excited about it. BUT I’m super tired, nauseous, and a complete emotional train wreck. I’m feeling so overwhelmed at work that I’m concerned for my physical and mental health. I’m so stressed out and I feel like everyone at work is piling on additional stress. I’m not sure if it’s the hormones or if it’s actually happening but I’m at my breaking point. Can I ask HR for some type of leave that isn’t MAT leave to get my head right?

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How far along are you? The first trimester can be really really tough. What I always tell myself with pregnancy and after the baby is born and things are hard, “it’s just a phase” in the moment it feels like it will never end and things will never improve but I’ve found they always do.

Drink a ton of water, eat small more frequent meals (like 5 per day) and take up to 100mg of vitamin B6 per day to help with the nausea. Nap when you can and go to bed early.

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