I had been celibate for two years prior to engaging in a relationship with someone. I ultimately was diagnosed with Herpes 2. . .

I now have found a partner that meets everything I desire with values and goals that align.

The issue is I am struggling because I wasn’t a promiscuous person and now I feel Ill miss out on the love of my life due to this.

It’s inadvertently taking a huge toll on my Earthly, and more importantly my Spiritual relationship with the Lord. I don’t know what to do.

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God is amazing and he would not make you the helper for a partner that did not love all of you.

A friend was in the same situation and shared early on and they had a great conversation and he accepted her.

Get to know the person and pray but God wants both of you to be content in his will.

If it’s his will, you will be together.

Sending you love ❤️

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Thanks this is reassuring

Herpes, even Herpes 2, is very common and not a huge deal after you've accepted it. It's estimated that most infected people - about 90% - have never been diagnosed are unaware as they're mostly asymptomatic. Don't stress yourself over it. The right partner will accept this very minor burden, and might have it too. I was diagnosed with Herpes 1 and was devastated - I thought it was a huge deal. But I quickly forgot about it as it turned out to have zero impact on my life. In fact, I've never even had a cold sore. Do you know how you got it? A baby could even get it innocently from their mom.

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I have no clue how I got it. I had sworn celibacy to wait for my forever partner, so this is truly just painful to deal with.

Most people might have herpes and they are not aware of it or are asymptomatic.. I’d say no need to bring it up unless the partner asks.. if they do, be open to them.. not sure difference between 1 and 2 but 70% of US population has herpes.. so quit overthinking..

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This seems incredibly wrong to KNOW you have an STD and to not tell your partner.

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It can be remove you need to take a supplement called AHCC look for it on Amazon. I’m 6 months will be gone

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FYI it’s made of a special mushroom that promotes the cells in the body to fights virus etc God is the best doctor he made all the herbs and oil for our service

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