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I'm male. From most to least important: Kindness and Intelligence tied, then Looks. IDGAF about her Wealth
For the responses on here, I think people are only ranking looks so low because they are assuming a minimum level of attractiveness. If we're being honest, a person that is a 10 in kindness and intelligence but a 1 in looks likely isn't dateable.
Here's why I ask, most men ( at least those that I surveyed) share that respect and loyalty are the two most sought after traits in women . Studies strongly suggest that women and men are more likely to cheat when they are in relationships with high income disparities. Therefore, wouldn't a guy want a woman with equal wealth, if he values loyalty?
I also think this is far from an exhaustive list. Some key things I look for are confidence, ambition, a generally positive outlook on life, critical thinking, ability to forgive and selflessness. Having someone call you out on your bullshit is also great
^convincing rebuttal Moelis 1, Ken hires well.
^ agreed, but looks is a close third. Basically a three way tie, then wealth at the bottom. Male here as well
^agreed. kindness is great, but what about genuineness/honesty/capacity to love? I would say those are all way more important than just being kind. but if thats included in kindness, I would go: kindness/intelligence/looks/wealth
Kindness, intelligence, wealth, looks - I'm female 👸🏽
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Kindness, intelligence, wealth, looks
Ooh we have the same list gs2!!
Ok, all valid and thoughtful responses. But, for the gents on this thread, I have to ask why a woman's wealth is ranked lowest?
Because those studies are probably cutting across the entire income spectrum while here you're asking the 0.1%ers
^My stagecoach friend, looks was ranked higher in this thread. I understand men are visual creatures, so looks is valued. It's biological; I get it. But looks fade, and respect and loyalty can be enduring. Wealth can outlast a woman's physical appearance. Are you suggesting my friend, that if a woman's looks fades, she can be traded in for a newer model? Hence why wealth ranks lower?
Kindness, fitness, intelligence, 38 other things I can't think of at the top of my head, wealth
^ Male or female?
I'm female
Yep we do :)
@VP1 wealth ranks lowest because my wife works from home and we have/make plenty of money. I understand that looks fade, but I think most people have a minimum standard for their partner's looks when they first start dating.
^you can't deduce wealth, kindness, or generosity, intelligence via looks. You can surmise but you can't deduce. It's called the halo effect; actor observer bias; trait ascription bias . The list goes on.
But I agree, the holy purpose of coupling is to propagate and seed the fields of existence . 😂