I have no one. I can’t post how I’m feeling on facebook. Twitter. Instagram. My family and friends live across the globe. I literally only have one anonymous app on my phone, fishbowl, and I feel so stupid and alone. I’ve never been so isolated in my life. I moved across the world with my husband and he just told me he is leaving tonight to fly home and is divorcing me. I’m so blindsided. And I’m so alone.

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