I just figured out that my wife has been playing the victim to all her friends. She has blamed me for strange things like she’s setting up a departure but trying to make sure everything flows to make me look like the villain and her the victim. I looked up through ai and they gave me 8 toxic traits and she, absolutely, covers all the bases.

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