I wish people understood that not every aspect of a relationship needs to be a democracy. Sometimes, the relationship is a Caribbean Island and you are its dictator. You don't have to compromise on every single issue and not every compromise is going to be 50/50. Ideally, you perfectly align half of the time, 40% of the time you compromise, and 10% of the time it's a unilateral decision.

For instance, because of my career, where we live is a unilateral decision on my end for whoever I date.

I've got my objectively super hot ex sending me bikini shots, but here I am frustrated about someone else. And I know myself well enough to recognize that the way out mentally is to line up some dates with someone new. Except that takes like a week.

What even is this dating life SMH. Can I just turn off the hormones or whatever and zen? Ugh.

Hi there!!

🥰🥰
I just want to say that I'm queer and married, in a Cis-hetero passing relationship 🤭

Do we have to talk about dating like all the time?

Can't we talk about other stuff? Like promoting THE AGENDA (jk)

No, but FR let's talk about being open and accepted in the workplace? How did you do that? How (un) friendly is the work environment?

Thankyaaaaaaaalll 😘😘😘

Anyone here down to hang out sometime, I’m a 26 year old guy (pretty socially awkward but super genuine), just been feeling lonely, if anyone is down lemme know

Hi all, when do y’all think is a good time to have the “what are we”/“are we exclusive” talk? After how many dates?

I’m so single I don’t know why. I’ve tried dating apps, played social sports, done hobbies that interest me, and even stopped looking. After all that, I still haven’t found someone #dyingalone

I’m a female who lives with my SO. We’ve been dating for years and we fight a lot so it’s possible a breakup is near. Do you think it would be difficult to date while living with my ex as roommates in a 2br/2ba? We have a lease that’s not even halfway done. In other words, would a man be uninterested in a woman who’s living with her ex (but of course being appropriate after the breakup)?

Any F in nyc wanna hang out this weekend? 30 M here.

Are there downsides to wearing a datejust to work, for a first year analyst ? Would you recommend against it ?

Any recommendations for a day date dress watch under 5K? Going to be my daily beater.

Going on a first date in a long time tonight … feeling nervous 🙈

if youve been talking to someone for 3 months and u catch them in a lie by stalking their friend on IG, should you call them out or is that too crazy

There are too many men out there who think that just because I'm being polite, it's a sign that they should flirt with me while I'm at work. I thought this was 2022, why haven't we as a society gotten past this yet?

What are you currently looking for? Like the answer below so we can get an idea of what sort of relationships, entanglements, hookups, etc, people are looking for in the bowl.

I’m really into older women, just wish I knew where to meet them

"she doesn't have good boobs" †
👀

Anyone doing this consistently? Came across a guy whose wife in a facility and he's paying $12,000/month. Insanity.

Which dating apps do you think are the best? I'm thinking Match and Bumble.

Single 24 year old here. Recently joined Hinge. I am barely getting any activity. I'm a former OKCupid user and I always got something there. Do people not use Hinge or is there something wrong with me? I'm a fit average height guy and I am not ugly. Looking for LTR especially now in the time of Corona. Didn't bother with human interaction before tbh but this loneliness is creeping up. 😔

What percentage of your total comp is in RSUs?

I'm looking for a Financial Reporting Manager with a BS in Accounting, 8+ years of experience - must have GAAP, Warrants and Stock compensation experience. Can be remote or Hybrid if you live in Atlanta.

Transactions salary range for experienced managers or senior managers SF/LA location. Exploring options with other big 4. Any suggestions.

Hi,

Anyone suggest the appraisal cycle and persent of increments will happen? I joined in month of Feb 22. Am I eligible for appraisal. If the cycle in dec.

Hi,

Can you help me in Flexi plan of atos.

Today is last of LTA submission and from the team there was no any response.

My query is I am eligible for 75k LTA and now I entering that amount on portal it not allowed me to enter .. continue showing error pop up say basic of HRA 5%

I am not understand that message. I entered my housing rent on portal..

Is the HRA and house rent factor in salary are the same.

And LTA is depend on HRA amount.

Can you help me .. it will be helpful..

TIA

Here's a question I wish I never had to ask. Is it better to use the code for bereavement leave or just burn pto I'm going to lose anyway? Does it make a difference from a utilization standpoint?

Advice needed: looking to leave public accounting and tax for good. I have two offers between a financial analyst and an accountant role. Based on your experience, which of the two has the best/better exit opportunities (should I decide to pursue the finance realm or something else) and better work life balance? The bigger pay as an analyst is tempting, but the company benefits are meh.

what was the most impressive question a candidate has asked during an interview?

when exactly is the ey split happening??

Does anyone have any suggestions for business writing courses?

We are looking for a CFP candidate who has completed the CFP Program but not yet licensed. Preferred that they have their licenses and a book of clients and 3-5 years experience. Call us 6789946448

Laila Blueprint Cabernet 😍 I swear this is the best wine I've had in years.

Where can we see the new hire RSUs allotted?
Workday just shows the annual RSUs not the new hire RSUs or joining bonus.

Will Capgemini reject after failing in imocha englishpro test ?

Hello Team

Could someone please help me with the expected CTC for service engineer inwith 3 years of experience?
I reviewed few details on Glassdoor & ambitionbox but not getting accurate details.
I saw someone with 2 yrs experience getting around 12lpa for Technical Support Engineer in MS.

Any guidance would be helpful!

AE: I need to take off this afternoon to the attend my grandmother’s funeral.
Owner: Why? She’ll be dead tomorrow too.

“The copy needs more modern slang young millennials can relate to. It isn’t jiggy enough right now."

I’m starting at VMLY&R on account side and was asked if I want a PC or Mac. Not trying to be the odd one out - what do most account folks have?

Jummah Mubarak Fam ☪️💚

What do consultants do? I see Consultant titles pop up on here all the time and wonder what do y’all do? What are you consulting on? Seems interesting but i I googled and am still confused.

If you aren’t straight, was there a public figure that made you realize this? My first memorable girl crush was Nigella Lawson, a British celebrity chef nearly twice my age.

mother in law thinks she gets to name my child…help

Mom went back to home country and I’ve been moping around holding back tears all day! Tell me it’s gonna be ok, I miss my mom 😭😭

I just want to cry in someone’s arms for an hour without feeling like I’m a burden or wasting someone’s time or feeling less I’m like less than everyone else

After ~20-30 min on a call, I stop paying attention.

Sometimes when I make a mistake at work I feel like I am not good enough for the job while other times I take it as “let’s do better next time.” Would love to find a balance between the two feelings.

Everyone likes me because I'm a doormat with no boundaries. I do anything and say anything to make people happy. I will think what you think I should think. Will you be my friend?

I think people who “kiss” their dogs/pet on their mouths are disgusting

If your GF is interested in a 3some, what are your thoughts on that? 🤭

Just spent 15 minutes buying a flight on the jet blue app... is there software really that slow?

….. I exclusively use cap locks to capitalize words instead of shift

I love watching Grace and Frankie 🙈
Anyone else?

I hate being a mom, didn't think I would

I've got my objectively super hot ex sending me bikini shots, but here I am frustrated about someone else. And I know myself well enough to recognize that the way out mentally is to line up some dates with someone new. Except that takes like a week.

What even is this dating life SMH. Can I just turn off the hormones or whatever and zen? Ugh.

i hate this.

Going on a first date in a long time tonight … feeling nervous 🙈

I’m seriously considering eating dinner at 5:30pm. Does that mean I’m officially old??

I’m so scared to let a relationship that gives me anxiety go because I’m 36 F and feel like I’m not going to find anyone else. He’s not a horrible person, but he can be inconsistent. When I bring it up to him he says he’ll try harder but then always goes back to default. I stick around because I think it’s more a personality trait and not that he’s not interested in me (maybe I’m naïve). Could really use some encouragement from a bunch of strangers.

How was you memorial day weekend?