If you're fairly visible, either in a big company or as a founder or industry leader, how much of your personal life do you share? Down to: do you use backgrounds when you're on Zoom to cover up your living room? Jeff Bezos here. (jk)

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I’m a nobody at my company and I judge folks, no matter how high or low they are on the org chart for using fake backgrounds. They’re distracting as hell. Just slightly blur it and call it a day.

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