I’m 14 weeks pregnant and have had a couple genetic tests already (potentially) indicating serious issues, despite not enough fetal DNA being gathered (another Natera draw was done today). It goes without saying that I’m freaking out. I’ve kept this pregnancy VERY quiet due to my concerns (my mom and only one friend know), but am looking at about 4 appointments in the next month (including an amnio) right up against a WILD month of pitch work. Cont’d below…

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My question is, is there a way to talk to my boss about this WITHOUT disclosing everything going on? While I hate the idea of work knowing before my loved ones, I will need some support coming up. And given the sensitivity of the potential outcome, I don’t want this to be known far and wide.

Yep, this right here. No one has any right to know more info than that you're handling a health concern. Obviously you didn't pick the timing, but you can underline that fact to your manager / team.

Good luck, OP. Fingers crossed it turns out to be nothing, but sending you strength to get through whatever is ahead.

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