I’m almost 2 years in to my first job out of college and am experiencing my first burn out. Where did my love and passion for my job go? The effects of a toxic manager are really setting in. Please tell me that it gets better if I find a new position! I want that love for my career back.

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It does get better…. I had my first burn out after 4 years out of college (6 months ago) lasted about 2-3 months onto the Christmas holidays…. Went away after I got better at my job and taking time off.

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That would most likely help a lot. Setting those work boundaries. Unfortunately my manager sees them as weaknesses if I’m not able to complete all tasks in one day- even if the task comes up 10 minutes to 5pm. It is helpful to know that things do get better!

My best advice is to get out of there - fast. The longer you're burned out, the longer it will take to recover. In my opinion, the only thing that can really help/cure burnout is rest and resetting your intentions/expectations/boundaries for your job/career. Leaving as soon as possible gives you more time to recuperate and find a manager that doesn't make you hate something you used to love.

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Sorry you’re experiencing a toxic manager so early into your career. Can you move internally? Externally? There’s a buoyant market out there. Vote with your feet! Good luck.

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Yes, start looking now! No need for you to suffer due to a toxic workplace. There ARE lots of good places (& people!) out there. Best wishes!!

Having read all of the comments and replies, I think your best bet is to try and move on. 2 years out of college may seem like a long time but in the grand scheme of things you have SO much ahead of you and the best is yet to come. Working for a smaller agency or company can provide you with a lot of solid talking and selling points as a potential candidate.

I don't know you and it's always easier on the sidelines, but I think you owe it yourself to set boundaries, and communicate those boundaries you're setting to your manager. Happy, well-balanced employees produce good work. You're too fresh to be feeling this. Trust me, the best is yet to come!

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It won't get better buddy so you have to find your own inner peace and don't allow yourself to be impacted by your job.

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