I’m on edge about snapping if one of my coworkers comment on the riots without acknowledging the reason behind them...the killings of unarmed black citizens. And at this point, I’m ready to stand up against partners too. Please give me some type of outline to better sugarcoat my blunt approach. Staying quiet is not an option if they bring it up.

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Thankfully for them, the firm made a statement. So that already calmed some of my internal tension. I will be sure to keep your points at the top of my mind.

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Although we should not have to do this, I would say, if you're calm enough to engage in conversation, that you should consider trying to walk them through the logic of why the riots are happening. We shouldn't have to, and we're not obligated to, it's just an opportunity to shut them down with logic, which I think is powerful.

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