I’ve been voluntold to help plan the holiday celebration once again, even though I’m not in HR or admin. Is it just me, or do women disproportionately get these kinds of soft tasks?

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I've worked in organizations where people wanted to do those kinds of things. I never really understood it, but hey, more power to them. When people are dragged into it, who knows what determines that. Perhaps you give off the vibe of someone who can organize things. And, if your coworkers are like mine, most of them couldn't be trusted to organize a two-car funeral.

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Absolutely. “But women are better at that sort of thing.” I heard that all the time when my manager tried to get me to order the team lunch - when I was the best performing PM on his team. I will say, though, that it meant the absolute world when two of my male colleagues threw me a baby shower at work. I really appreciated that they spearheaded it and didn’t delegate to a single woman.

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