I've never been a jealous person myself, but my girlfriend (5 month in) hangs out a lot with her previous intimate partner (who she claims is not an ex).
When I'm traveling for work they would hang out ~3x a week. I don't think she is cheating but it starting to become somewhat annoying... I have never met this guy and she always goes to another room if I video call and they are together

I just got out of a long term marriage in which my ex wife cheated on me w/ my friend

Am I overthinking?

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Come on…seriously lol

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Don’t worry. She’s just rolling around in the bed unclothed with him. She’s not cheating at all.

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HAHA LMFAO!!!!

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You are absolutely not overthinking. The writing is on the wall my friend. Exit stage left quickly while you have a chance. There's someone better suited for you.

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Run

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If this situation is causing you so much stress and discomfort, have you asked yourself why you’re still staying in the relationship?

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She’s definitely hiding something go with your gut

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It's time to go to the gym and focus on yourself bro.

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Have the three of you ever hung out together?

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Nope, never met him and if I video and she is hanging out she nevers puts him on frame or anything

Get out immediately. This woman is playing you. Everything you have written suggests betrayal. Like it or not, she’s still romantically attached to this guy and it shows. Three’s a crowd, don’t wait to find out the hard way end it now. This woman isn’t capable of having a monogamous partnership. She is showing you that she’s the type to keep tabs on ex-partners. The type that always have unfinished business, loose ends with former acquaintances. End it, dont even try to negotiate because if she ends it with you, who do you think she will turn to? Exactly.

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no. your a jealous person.
why not have sex when you are not there

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University, you will reap what you sow....

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Is there an update on this?

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Bro you are starting to make me laugh. This is starting to feel like a soap opera. Are you afraid or something? Leave her, end it and move on, you deserve so much better. Once you’ve lost everything you are free to do anything. Good luck but deep down you know what to do. I once had a gf, four years, I ended it when I realised she was still in cahoots with an old friend but guess what?! Few months after the split I find out through the grapevine that she was seeing at least three other men and one of them I already met!! Imagine my dismay. The hardest decision is always the right one to make. Please keep us posted!!!

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I thought this was the relationship bowl. Maybe you can unsubscribe if you are not interested in relationship threads

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She goes to another room? Coz maybe the guy has no clothes on 🤣🤣

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Mocking 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

1. Red Flag (He’s just a friend) Even if she is naïve enough to believe this, then why have you not met her “friend.”
2. You should really heal the wound of being cheated on prior to engaging in another serious relationship. Otherwise you are likely to project this wound on to your partner and live in a state of distrust. Without healing this wound, you will likely find thoughts and fears of your partners unfaithfulness in many of her daily activities that are altruistic.

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Any updates?

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We are still together, been a bit better last couple weeks but there was another overnight stay. I'm gonna have a more candid convo on my return from business trips

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Please respect yourself and breakup with her or go on a break and start dating other people. This other man is walking all over you. There’s no reason your girlfriend should be sleeping over another man’s house! Unless you like humiliation and that’s your fetish - more power to you

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You ever seen the film - GET OUT? Thats you right now you need to run! Trust me it’s not gonna end well. I can see the inevitable conclusion coming from a mile away. If I had a penny for every time a friend would tell me the exact same situation that they were in, I’d be a billionaire. It’s only a matter of time until you catch them in the act. Don’t wait, have the courage to leave, stand up for what’s right and move on with someone better. Do not let your emotions cloud your judgement.

If you just got out of a marriage due to infidelity, then you should get out of this relationship so that you can recuperate your emotional feelings. You may have entered too soon into a new relationship.

Hey any updates?

This question should not be in Glassdoor. If someone has relationship problems they should look for a therapist who deals with couples. This has no place in an online job search.

Having worked for many years and in different companies I have learned that it is not a good idea to mix one's personal issues with business.

You have to establish boundaries in any relationship. You cannot assume they're there automatically with anyone. Let your GF know how you feel and if she doesn't respect your feelings or change her habits, then it's time for the boot.

No.

She is either with you or playing the field , and worse yet she knows your history and does not GAS! Guaranteed if you did the same she'd be GONE!

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