I've never been a jealous person myself, but my girlfriend (5 month in) hangs out a lot with her previous intimate partner (who she claims is not an ex).
When I'm traveling for work they would hang out ~3x a week. I don't think she is cheating but it starting to become somewhat annoying... I have never met this guy and she always goes to another room if I video call and they are together

I just got out of a long term marriage in which my ex wife cheated on me w/ my friend

Am I overthinking?

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Come on…seriously lol

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Don’t worry. She’s just rolling around in the bed unclothed with him. She’s not cheating at all.

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HAHA LMFAO!!!!

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I am pretty sure this is a troll

Not a troll bro for real

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please tell you left her

I did not but we chatted about it and she is being more mindful. There is a lot of positive in the relationship, this is the major issue but then again trying to balance not being controlling with putting boundaries...

Hey any updates on this?

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