Just a lonely thought on a Saturday 3 am... Nowhere to share so sharing here only where i am an anonymous guy...

I feel Loneliness & Freedom is the worst combination...Whn u have freedom to do everything but nobody to do with/ enjoy with...

What do you do when your lifelong friends get married, have kids and disappear to the burbs or wherever and you’re single, lonely and gay?

Any new dads out there just want a chill 9-5 job and spend more time with the kids? I’m 35 and the rat race is killing me and I’m valuing time with family more than money at this point.

Anyone with anxious attachment tendencies? Going through a breakup and I keep thinking about how I pushed him away and then am down on myself, replaying memories in my mind. At the end of the day, I think we were a bad match from the beginning and misaligned, but so hard not to beat myself over my anxious attachment during my relationship

Any advice for 25 yr old like me?

So let’s say if someone’s father / very close relative was very high up in the government of India in Delhi. How does that person go about leveraging his / her relationships, legally, to do something in India? Would you rather do that or stay in the US in consulting?

Finally had a breakdown over infertility this AM and trying to pull myself together for Zoom. My tests are fine, but husband can’t deliver during my fertile window. I feel so hopeless with every month that goes by, and he doesn’t have any sense of urgency when HE is the one who wants kids more than I do. Just needed to vent.

Can I buy 2 houses , one in a district with school ratings 4/10 and another house with school district 9/10? And then send kid to school which is 9/10 .

Currently don’t have kids. But would have them soon enough to send them to school after 5 years.

Is it legally allowed to have two residences in same area but different zip codes and choose better school for the kid ?

How do you manage a long distance relationship? I got engaged 3 months ago and my fiancé and I live in different cities. I just can’t stop thinking about her and feel horrible there on.

I’ve been in a relationship now for two years. We are living together. We talk about the future etc. I could easily see myself marrying her. However, I have an issue… cont

When did you know you were falling out of love with your partner? Did you fix it, or break things off and why?

In search of stories to hopefully understand a phase in my own long term relationship.

SO said he couldn’t receive letters during Ranger School, but finding info online that I can send. Any insight? Maybe he doesn’t want the distraction?

had a level 3 lock down today (active shooter/imminent threats). no one was harmed but it left me wondering what else can I have in my classroom or do to keep my kids safe or fight back? (Hacks/tips)

Have you ever been or currently in a relationship with someone of who’s political beliefs conflict with your own?

Not dealing with this currently have dealt with it in the past. My parents started out opposites but now believe similarly. I’m wondering if it is possible in this day and age.

Do you think you and your significant other should have similar personalities? My significant other and I are doing long distance and I feel like when I FaceTime with him, I emote more and show interest by asking more questions but from his end, he doesn’t always have a reaction or just nods, and it makes me feel like he’s uninterested. On his end he sees it as he’s comfortable.

People who live with housemates / have a garden. Does it get noisy / do you find people in the garden earlier than (we) finish, that distract you from your work?

Also, living how is living next to a secondary school? Noise / traffic etc?

Thanks

How do I ship my mom in law back? Almost ruining our marriage and loosing the affection for my wife and kids already

What resources would you recommend to find a full time nanny in Houston? Any specific websites, services, groups or places that have worked for you in the past?

Partners with kids and a working spouse, how do you manage? Is it realistic for both people in the relationship to work full time long term? How do you keep marriage going and career progressing?

I have pretty strong social phobia and am worried about making friends. I'm going to be working for an engineering company so I imagine I don't have to be really up on the latest trends or anything but how can I talk to people without making it sound unnatural?

I have an experience of more than 2 years in financial operations, audit and compliance, reports management and data analysis. Is there any opportunity in EY GDS as per my skills?

How much of a salary hike should be fair after a year in the field of architecture? Given the inflation

Financial advisory seems so dull compared to cyber . I should have done cyber from day one smh 🤦‍♀️

Is working at a local 1-2 office firm where you do tax, audit, and bookkeeping more interesting than just sticking to audit or tax?

I’m an application analyst in the midwest for a small CAH. I was hired into this position at $27.15/hr and have now worked here for a year. I’m curious how my salary compares with others working in the midwest. My primary responsibilities are systems/HIE integrations using Meditech, HL7 transfer, SQL report writing, and user administration (just to name a few).

Hi fishes
Do Accenture have rotational shift for business analyst? Pleasee let me know

24.5 LPA for a solution architect role in TCS.
Is the ask is high or low for 8+ yoe with javaa, aws

Difference between Vodafone India services and Vodafone Intelligent Solutions? Are these two different companies?

What is job requisition number given by her of Capgemini

Can we change project in Capgemini?

Stupid me thought Accenture is different. Like any other consulting firm, some MDs literally gave away their soul to the devil once you got promoted.

Hit like to enable dm... Looking for BA roles urgent

Uplers Or Turing? Pls share your opinion with reason

Has anyone successfully used an education benefit? What's the process?

Im interested buta little nervous about my firm because you have to pay up front and then get reimbursed.

What are AFS’s education benefits - do they provide free udemy / learning tree accounts for self study?

Hi all, off topic. How to respond to relatives when they ask to borrow money. My uncle is asking for 2L and is saying he will return in a month. He is in the construction business and faces losses during Covid. I know he genuinely needs it. But I'm not sure when or if he will return it. Please help. What to do.

I am looking for a job change in the field of IoT.
I am currently working with Entrib Analytics , Pune and we are into Industrial IoT solution. It's a product based company and I am taking care of West and south region business.
Have total 4 years of experience in sales and 2 years in soft development.
Please let me know if you opportunity for my experience.

Hi all,

Which is the beat compay to join out of these in terms of work culture and job security.
YOE-5.4 working as QE
Hexaware-12ctc
Mindtree- 13ctc
Maverics not yet disclosed

Has anyone taken up Azure data engineering course from Deepak Goyal? If yes, can you provide your feedback about the course.

What are positive effects of covid on our career in general.

Hi all,

How is module lead position at Mindtree, I've joined TR couple of months back and currently negotiating with mindtree at offered CTC of 15(13.5fixed+1 .5var@100% pay) 1. How is work culture, projects, wlb, yearly hikes at mindtree. 2. What is the salary bracket for this position at mindtree how much can I negotiate further.

3yoe as Java backend dev TIA.

Hello,

Can someone help me in filing itr.
Getting below error. Which section should I select?

You can not file return under section as the time limit to file the return under this section is over.
139(1)/4/9?

Thank you

LAID OFF!!!
Its been almost 4 months since I was laid off.
I have more than 7.5 years of experience in Property and Casualty Commercial Lines Insurance Operations. I was into underwriting support for US insurance. My role included Policy Issuance, invoice, endorsements, NB, renewals etc.
Lost my job in February due to covid, and desperately looking for a new opportunity.
Request you to kindly help me in getting a job.

Thanks!
Sudhanshu Joshi

Hi Fishes,

CGI vs PWC SDC
Which one is the best...

Ey Fishes Needed a small information
I am going to join Ey
I was filling the medical insurance form. Wanted to know if Top up of 100000 added shows deduction of 3700
Is it monthly or yearly deduction???

Hello Fishes,

How's DuPont as a company in terms of job security, WLB, appraisals etc.

Any leads appreciated..

What should be the fixed salary of product manager with 3 year of experience in a well funded startup?

To all current and former employees of Tata Strategic Management Group (TSMG): what is your opinion about the organisation ?

Hi all,
Please help I am looking for a job as Talend ETL developer in any MNC.

Hello all ,
I am looking for job change,
I have total experience of 10 years in automotive plastic components design and development and 7 years of experience in sensor integration for ADAS,
I'm currently working as senior PDE
I have the complete experience of Product developent cycle,Right from Product strategy, BOM Creation, Requirements engineering, concept creation, release and documentation,PDM,PLM,Supplier Development, Engineering Change Management,Agile change management