Male fish, would you be willing to take your partner’s last name after marriage?

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Luckily both my wife and I had the same last name 😄

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Singh

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I have a better idea. How about nobody takes anyone’s first/last name and they live happily ever after?

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Looks like those trends are coming back

My last name is a mile long. I wouldn't mind a new one. 😆
- Lady Fish

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I will be totally okay being a trophy husband! 😆

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Combine your surnames and make a new one... and both of you use it. Kinda like Geller-Green. Its a win win for both...and you'll both adopt each other's last names:)

We gotta start somewhere. Buck up dude. Can't stop this train now!

It's too much paperwork besides an additional document to prove you're the same person. I wouldn't want either of us to change anything surname included!
-Male Fish

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