Manager tires to tell me that’s not that “right thing to do for an Asian person after I expressed “I have a boyfriend “ (I’m a guy). Thoughts ?

My male manager stares at my man boobs..

What do you do when when someone at the top of your firm says something bigoted and you don’t call them out immediately?

How to deal with parents that want to know everything but you don’t want to tell them everything because you want to loose your job?

At my uncles wedding in Madrid I remember lying down on the grass in the courtyard after their first dance and crying, my Dad came and saw me, laid down in his suit beside me and asked what was wrong.

“I know my boyfriend wouldn’t dance with me like that at our wedding”

And we just lay there as I cried, and then got up. Had a drink.

Said boyfriend left years ago, and now I have a wonderful man who just asked me what type of dance lessons I want for our wedding next year.

Don’t give up.

Everyone likes me because I'm a doormat with no boundaries. I do anything and say anything to make people happy. I will think what you think I should think. Will you be my friend?

As holidays come around, the family has upped their questions about when we are having kids and why we haven’t yet. Doesn’t help that my sibling with one other kid just announced her second pregnancy. Definitely happy for her, but don’t feel like I need to explain to the whole family that we are struggling.

I am incredibly stressed about this whole situation. I can’t stop reading the news and just fearful for my family and for the world. Has anyone found any coping mechanisms while social distancing?

PEOPLE DO MAKE MISTAKES!! but My manager reacts very rudely everytime with me, And all seniors who are with him around 10+ years will assign tickets to me and they monitor me continuously.

I never had any conflicts with anyone, but i felt that they all connered me. I had a call with my director and senior director and explained about this on my last day

i never met my teammates in office since i joined and resigned in covid.
Did this happen coz i dint have much rappo with my them?

I am incredibly attracted to my new EM. Thank God the study is virtual, I can turn off the thumbnail when they are on camera, and I roll off soon. I don’t think I would get any work done if we were in a team room together all day. 😂

How have you combated your fear of rejection? I fixate on such small things as when my friends, for example, reject plans I have made. This definitely makes me more averse to putting myself out there and makes me ruminate on past perceived failures, which are clearly not good for personal growth

My SO adds very little to our relationship. She has a dead end job. I cook. I work. I oversee finances. I plan trips. She doesn’t have a voice in the relationship. I’ve asked her to give her perspective but she always defaults to mine bc she thinks I’m smarter/worldly. She feels intimated by me and my social circle. Lately, I’ve found myself thinking for her. Anticipating her wants and needs and then adjusting my behavior to meet them. Which she appreciates but it’s frustrating 29M 27F

Haven’t seen bf in over 3 months due to COVID. Lately, he’s been pushing to see me but I don’t feel comfortable because he hasn’t been quarantining. He makes it sound like if I’m not willing to go see him might as well breakup. Any advice?

I went through my gf’s phone and found out she had a crush on my best friend when we first started dating (over a year ago). I suspected this at first but it hurts to have it confirmed and see her telling her friends about him. I’m not sure how I should feel since I went out of line to look through her phone.

My boss in my creative agency threatened to fire me because I, a male, came into work with my nails painted. HR is having a very complicated day today as I found out I could take legal action if he does fire me since we don't have an established dress code that has any guidelines against male nail polish wearing.

Just got let go and my manager said part of it was because I was looking for other jobs. I didn't look for other jobs at work, so I'm not sure how they could have known that unless a coworker snitched on me. Is it worth it to try and find out who or should I just leave it? Can't deny that I'm seriously pissed off about it.

I hate that I still want to hear from him. I just have no idea what I want him to say or what I want to say. I feel like if I get anywhere near him he’ll be able to sense my pain. Are we sure the no contact rule is only 21 days? I feel like I need 21 months.

Just taking the opportunity to get current. Sober 3 years and 10 months. This past couple weeks have been stressful and my mind slipped into fantasizing about my drug of choice. Last week I flipped out at some of my wife's family. I did an amends and I think time will heal this one. It's all up to HP. Although I have neglected my morning practice this week, I'm practicing self compassion with positive self talk.

Anyone have a primer on working with children? From a business affairs perspective?

Overheard from another coworker that the person hired to be in charge of the entire campus had sexual harassment complaints made against them at their previous job, and apparently the reason one of our coworkers left is because he was making her feel uncomfortable. Thoughts?

How do u keep communication in a relationship if one person is emotional & other isn't (ex check-ins, how to recover from a fight, best way to not hold a grudge if something was said out out of anger)

Married men of this group,
What advice would you like to give to the younger generation who are single/about to get married?

After how many years of joining American express I can go for IJP?

Hi Siemens sharks, I’ve 8 years of experience in Testing and have been selected for the position of Senior Test Engineer for Siemens Industry Software (SISW). I wanted to know what is maximum fixed component that I can ask for my experience level?

Good morning everyone! Anyone here hiring for senior project/program manager roles? I am trying to exit out from consulting and looking to see if anyone in the industry is hiring. Probably a long shot here but would love to chat if you know of any openings.

Can someone recommend some marketing and design blogs? I am working on a project and my creative juices just aren't flowing.

I have my first case review I am kind of nervous about it, wish me luck. I am not scared, I am just nervous about it.

If i am a fresher in cognizant and worked for 2 months and have got better opportunity can I abscond from same as the other company is asking to join immediately

Ey Gds or PWC Sdc/AC which one is good for 9+years of experience interms of WLB, hikes and other benifits?
TIA

Does Capgemini file for L1 Visa? If yes, how long the process takes.

Hey Fishes,

Need likes & emojis
Can I get some
N here's some humour
What's the logic behind likes & reactions after 12 emojis and then we getto send a DM?
Boss: just do what is informed to be done, Don try to be over smart
Employee : I think this is the smartest way to jus DM Directly instead of getting likes & other reactions. Do you think that's really imp.?
Boss : in his mind this guy is too much chaalo...
Let me shift him to other team or.let me see if.i.can kick him out..
Lol!!

What is the average salary for a project manager at a social media agency? NYC-based with 5 years experience.

I am an associate project manager at a top agency and know I am severely underpaid. But Can I get a range of what I should be paid?

How did you guys go through boot camp? Did you do any special training?

Folks with suits that travel - how do you get around the one carry on and one personal item rule if you have a carry on, laptop bag, and garment bag?

I have a consulting/PE interview on Friday, please recommend consulting books or sites to read. Need to speak consulting language

In Newport, RI for the weekend - any fellow 🐠 have any recommendations on things to do and see?

How much did you put into 1st house down payment? Saved up $40K & am just wondering whether I should put it into housing or another investment. Also,4 years out of college & thinking about grad school

Do you have a home office? Do you use an external monitor? Did you expense the docking station?

Do you prefer the grocery store wine section to be organized by varietal or country? Vote for country here

Is it just me or did uber disappear off of Ibotta again...

I'm an introverted person, like to keep to myself, focus on work, spend the rest of my time on family, gym etc. I've been told that I need to work on my communication and client relationship building skills. any books I can read? I don't follow pop. culture anymore, no longer actively follow team sports (but sporty myself) as I consider it bread and circus for the masses and don't rly enjoy work drinks... Am I doomed? Personally I am happy and love the work but fear for my career progression.

Any fellow type B’s have advice for maintaining sanity while working under an intense type A? Feel like I’m losing my mind here...

Am looking at exit opportunities and researching FAANG. Curious to understand why anyone would join Amazon which has the worst benefit of the FAANG? Can anyone share what’s better at Amazon that I am not aware of? Amazon and Facebook on sites lined up in January! So researching now!;)

Deloitte peeps (especially federal travelers): what's the policy if your flight home is delayed? Can you expense a hotel/per diem for Friday?

Deloitte people. I confirm layoffs of 4 ranked individuals and this year it's been hard rankings. Many 3s forced into 4. I was on the calls. Beware. Not trying to scare. Sharing facts.

Looking for book recommendations on strategy/strategic thinking. Something along the lines of Contagious but open to any options. Thanks in advance!

At a normal happy hour after switching to industry and suddenly miss consulting lifestyle. Miss it all the time but immensly now. How do I boomerang back?

Flight delayed for almost 6hrs. United, can I get any vouchers for this?

Is it difficult to switch to another consulting firm with a little over one year of experience? How would you go about contacting a recruiter for an interview? Any advice would be much appreciated 🐠

How common is it for people to not pay off credit cards every month/actually pay the interest on them?

Staff augmentation projects - what are the pros and cons? Thanks in advance for your insights! 🙏🏻

Best certifications in your industry?