My bro is getting married and they decided to only tell 25 people for the big day. So they want to keep it a secret until after getting married, then send an announcement to other people.

It limits who could be invited to the batchlor party. There are a few people that he would want to be invited if not for the keep it secret. So, its a bad idea to invite a few other people(not in the 25) to the batchlor party right?

During the pandemic I dove into my self care (found a therapist, learned I was having seizures and got on meds for that). My journey has been difficult and not pretty to watch. Somewhere along the line I feel like my fiancé saw too much. I no longer feel like romantic parters and instead feel like we have a “caretaker/patient” type relationship. I don’t feel sexy or attractive anymore. I talked to him about this and he feels bad. But I feel guilty for bringing it up. Anyone else had this issue?

People who have cheated in their previous relationships, how did you come to realize the reason behind your behavior? A close friend confided in me that she has cheated in all her previous relationships and struggles to understand the reasoning behind it. She feels a lot of shame and is trying to understand why she does what she does.I have suggested therapy but she is not ready yet. How did you folks arrive at the root cause behind your behavior? Advice? Book suggestions that I can pass along?

Trying to be really understanding about coworkers with no children feeling stressed during the holiday season, but it's hard not to ask if they'd prefer to go home to my sick kid, frustrated spouse and dirty house instead of their empty apartment where they have a flat screen TV and a beer waiting. How do you keep sane?

A guy who is claiming to be in love with me (a black woman and immigrant), is a conservative (pro-trump, anti-gun laws, denies that there is racism etc). Are those red flags to make me cut him off?

Best Christmas things to do with a two-year-old?

I have been teaching K for 5 years, but have been in early childhood education teaching preschool and first grade for 20 years. I am seeing such a change in the way my students are coming into school now and it is not a good change. My kiddos lack fine motor, gross motor, and basic language skills. They lack self control and emotion management. They are not ready to learn. They don’t even know how to sit down and eat snack at their tables! For the first time ever, I have students who have never

Is anyone else here new to El Paso? What have you been doing to make friends and integrate? Open to any suggestions on this honestly

Anyone know how much a full time nanny in the Austin area would cost?

For people who are already in their late 30s or even older and never married or lived with someone by choice- What keeps u motivated to go keep moving forward?
How differently do you see life from others?
What's your persective?
Do you regret your decision ever?
What do you think are the Pros and cons of not marrying or having a long term partner?

TLDR: Getting over your ex of 2.5 years ghosting you after they said they wanted to reconnect.

I was dating someone for about 2.5 years and then we broke up because of COVID and the long distance was making it too difficult to continue. The break up must’ve been like a 4-5 minute FaceTime because I was very distraught. After we broke up, she started seeing someone else but I was heartbroken and it’s taken me over a year to really get over everything and process those feelings. (Cont.)

I love living in Miami, but have found it incredibly difficult to make friends. I had a thriving social life/ friend group in Chicago. Anyone else finding it hard to build friendships here?

How many folks here looking to actually connect for serious relationship (potentially converting to marriage)?

I’ll start 🙋🏻‍♂️ 30, located in the US (east coast) - open to worldwide relocation.

I’m in SF but nervous to officially come out to my friends even though I’m sure they all know/assume anyway. :(

Any books that you found very helpful to read as expecting parents? We’re just nine weeks along, but would love to start preparing however we can!

Do you ever get over an ex you loved?

Why do some muslim men think that career women in their 30s become desperate and will significantly lower their standards? Someone with 3 kids that’s been divorced twice and isn’t even practicing just told my friend he’ll do her the favor of giving her children. The arrogance is mind boggling

Do friends ever dump you onto your therapist or psychiatrist or dismiss your valid, normal feelings as “oh did you tell your doctor about this?” I feel like they’re just shitty friends delegating off.

First boyfriend i’ve had during the holidays and he’s away at home. I’m so bored 🙁😞

Just got divorced after being separated for a year. Any suggestions for places to go and meet new folks?

What is your current salary and are you happy with that ?

Best leadership books you’d recommend? promoted to manage a large team and looking for some books to get practical advices!

Hi guys,

I got my full and final settlement today but I can see no tax deduction. Does anyone know the reason. 4k tax used to be deducted every month till now. I also got gratuity and leave encashment along

What is everyone’s favorite strategy when dropping into Verdansk

Saw the email about GPS ERP demand for staff and the training programs Deloitte is going to provide. I’m interested. Any suggestions about where to get started learning about SAP or ERP generally?

Best resources for mental health among cops?

How many billable hours per week is considered at capacity? I’m getting pushback on boundaries I’m setting about additional matters and marketing work from my firm when I’ve been billing 60-75 hours per week for the last 6 weeks, and I’m still behind on my work. I feel like it’s reasonable to not kill myself further to fit in more/turn things around faster at this point, but am I being unreasonable? I expect my workload to remain at this level through the end of the year at least.

What technical skills are a necessity for product managers?

It’s time to recognize the agencies who have — and have not — made any sort of pledge or progress in support of BLM.

What’s the salary for S2 audit NYC?

Hey guys, could someone please help me in sharing some detailed insights on interview Q&As for L2 Event Builders profile?
URGENT (The interview is tomorrow).

I have offer from Oracle and EnY. Working in oracle erp. Which company should I join?

What is avg salary for 5yoe java fullstack dev in UAE

Looking to make the move from big4 to law firm. I am a JD/LLM and a new manager. Any suggestions on networking with COVID, recruiters, etc.? Also interested in hearing experiences of others that have made the move.

Any PwC manufacturing folks here (Reliability/Maintenance or Prod Development). Looking for referral and also some advise on level (Mgr v Sr Mgr).

Native English-speaking writer thinking about moving to Germany. I’m a B2 German speaker, but should probably stick to writing in English. Is there a maket for my type?

I bought my boyfriend the Valve Index for Christmas. What are some games I should buy him?

Anyway to slim down legs; just want to smooth out this massive imbalance that the body seems to favor to the downside

Reasons to stay in NYC? Kinda feel really sad living here.

Why are boomers strolling around outside running errands? Is it time to reopen schools and fire up the economy?

Graduated college 6 months ago and just been working since. I’ve been living in my city for almost 20 years now and want a different change of scenery. Any advice from people who moved west coast to East coast. I’ve been interested working in Chicago or New York

Looking for a dark walnut wood desk top. Ikea karlby is no longer being manufactured. Willing to spend up to ~350ish... any leads would be greatly appreciated. Also, post your current desk set up for some ideas 😬 thanks!

Never thought that there would be so many haters in the workplace - what happened to being happy with your own success AND the success of others on your team.

I want to get a bottle of liquor from Canada that isn't sold in the US. Can't get it shipped. Anyone from PA/DE/NJ/NY going to Quebec anytime soon that would be willing to bring a bottle back?

I’m excited to marry my SO in a few months but I have severe stage fright and do not like being the center of attention. Any advice on how to reduce the anxiety and just enjoy the day?

Do you get your mom's flowers for Valentine's day? My mom is single, so I thought it might be a nice gesture

Anyone witnessed these protests first hand?

Bring back Trump’s market.

What internet speed do u pay for to be confident you can work at home properly?

For those of you with immediate family members who are at high risk, how are you doing? I find myself being very anxious and stressed about my father getting sick.

Any off beat documentaries to recommend? Just watched the Barkley Marathons.

Haven’t seen bf in over 3 months due to COVID. Lately, he’s been pushing to see me but I don’t feel comfortable because he hasn’t been quarantining. He makes it sound like if I’m not willing to go see him might as well breakup. Any advice?

My Dad and brother didn’t even text me happy birthday 😔

Anyone here ever been scared by some major differences in materialism with your partner? I’ve been considered “boujee” by some friends but my girlfriend of just over a year is on a whole other level. Lately because of many of her friends getting engaged / married, rings have been mentioned and she’s said pretty much she wouldnt be happy with under 25k.

I come from a very middle class upbringing, and so does she, although she’s influenced by friends dating professional athletes and stuff

What’s the scoop at BDO’s national training in Dallas? Anyone have anything juicy they’d like to share?