My husband is so stupid and I can't deal with him anymore. Any advice? He doesn't know how to do laundry, cook or clean dishes properly. Even can't mow the lawn properly, we get warnings from HOA....

So my brother doesn't talk to me for 6 months.   (I had offered my lake house guest space to my cousin who said yes instead of my brother who didn't know if he could come nor when he might know if he could come, how unfair of me).

On Thanksgiving day mom arrives and tells me that brother might come by in an hour.  He had ignored my invite weeks ago.  (Uh ok, sure).

Continued...

How did you make friends when you moved here?

How do I figure out spending with my SO? Initially I was paying for 90% of stuff (no actual bills, just going out). I talked to her and said we need to be more even. She was never proactive. She kind of got offended but we ended on a good note to split things. It went well for a couple weeks but now it's back to normal. She never takes out her card and only venmos me if I send her the request. She lets Venmos sit for weeks before paying them. I still let a lot of things slide.

For those of you with immediate family members who are at high risk, how are you doing? I find myself being very anxious and stressed about my father getting sick.

I hate it when people try to bond with me over trauma when their trauma is that they fight a lot with their spouse or they didn’t get the promotion they wanted. How is that staring death in the face??

Fellow desi fishes, how do you all deal with loneliness? I don’t really have many friends where I live. Every weekend, I can’t help but feel alone and lonely

Why doesn't my wife get that it's just me and the great dane now. She making this awkward wanting some room in the bed.

I need 11 L to connect with friends.plz help me to get that

What would you do if you didn’t need money? I have a fair amount coming one day and don’t actually need to work to live a good life (middle / upper-middle class). I work because of this vague notion of “ambition” and because everyone I grew up around is highly competitive and hard driving. I just feel unhappy so often and am wondering what this is all leading to. Scared I’m wasting my life being unhappy / in turmoil cause it’s what my culture wants me to do.

How often and for how long do you see your kids?

I feel old and tired with all the family responsibilities since I was a teenager. Often I feel exhausted emotionally and mentally and then I pick myself up to move forward as I don’t have an option to quit. Who can I blame? None. 😢

had a level 3 lock down today (active shooter/imminent threats). no one was harmed but it left me wondering what else can I have in my classroom or do to keep my kids safe or fight back? (Hacks/tips)

Am I crazy or do women take pride in saying “my boyfriend/husband makes twice as much as me” or similar statements

Would you break up with your girlfriend if she doesn’t want kids and you do.... this has been weighing on my mind a lot recently...

HELP! 30+ years of teaching Sped and I’m at a loss. 6th grade student in Middle School with Doose syndrome. Prior to MS, the elementary said he never caused problems. Since the 1st day, he is disruptive in class, refuses to work, and is disrespectful. He has a one-on-one para but she is in tears most days because of his behavior. Parents agreed with a behavior plan - he thinks it’s a game. Parents say he is not allowed to be this way at home.

When Peter says I just want to be in a relationship where we give more than what we get. Story of my life. Why is that so hard?

Dating my bf for about 6 months and he’s best friends with his mom and tells her everything. He even told his mom about the one time I tried a drug, before I met him. I thought I told him in confidence and now I found out he told her. How would you feel?

Real talk ... if someone is over 35 and hasn’t been married before, do you automatically assume there is something wrong with them?

Welcome all to parents in Consulting bowl, please post a little bit about yourself, number of kids and their ages!

Does anyone have insights into recruiting at the Dubai office? Have things slowed down?

Shall we start curating a list of comp/bonus?
Saw the main bowl which has this list but few data points for Europe & UK.
Would be good to know what the pay is currently due to the hot market & new joiners with great comp?

Cyclescheme Question: very specific Q but does anyone know *who* reviews the applications? I kinda need to get the bike asap and was wondering if there is a way to reach out to support the process.

Why does PWC Kolkata SDC pay so low?
Only 16lpa fixed (senior associate 1), is it worth joining?

How hard is the AWS Cloud Practitioner Certification? What study sources have you used and how long did it take?

Offer Evaluation:
I have offers for product manager roles from the following companies:
1. Airmeet
2. Razorpay
3. Flipkart
4. Meesho

YOE: 5 years
Offered(Approximate): 50 LPA + ESOPS
I would like to know which company is best and do I need to negotiate more on the offers?  

Is Ericsson planning to have permanent wfh options going forward?

How much % hike we can expect from IC2 to IC3 under stevemiranda org ?

Anyone that might be able to provide a referral for a job posting? I have resume, and job In hand . Thanks everyone!

Heard that Accenture gave promotions to all in the name of Fastrack promotion tag in Dec 2021.. as the attrition rate is high currently.. is that true...?

Writing a report for the first time and feel way in over my head. Team didn’t discuss what adjustments we want as a group before divvying up—new transfers what has been your experience?

Any significant differences in comp between the Big 4 FDD groups (specifically at senior level)? I’m hearing PWC pays the highest bonuses but not sure if there is any truth to that.

What makes a great agency environment (aka, culture)? Having worked in several, it almost sounds like an oxymoron. But if YOU were in charge, what would you do to provide a great employee environment?

Hi! Am wondering what folks are paying for new 2022 Toyota 4Runners? I’m located in Virginia (near DC). Any informed people out there know what to expect? (Even if not in Northern VA - just thought I’d throw that out there)

Final day at current company tomorrow and I have 100k+ AMEX points I need to use before they disappear forever. How should I redeem them to get the most bang for my buck?

I'm from Baltimore, and lately, we have had a crazy buying spree, I mean I have sold the same property 2 times in less than 2 weeks, and the person who bought it immediately put it on the market and made an average of $25k in less than 5 days. Many reports show that investing in Baltimore and Philadelphia is the future, I don't doubt it. What is the fastest you have ever resold a property?

i'm in Privacy at Deloitte, what other consulting firms have a comparable/ better privacy practice?

For those of you with immediate family members who are at high risk, how are you doing? I find myself being very anxious and stressed about my father getting sick.

Any of you auditors have pick up lines? Matched with a hot auditor guy and want to slide in

Advice on dating someone long distance? Kinda big price tag just to see each other.

Haven’t seen bf in over 3 months due to COVID. Lately, he’s been pushing to see me but I don’t feel comfortable because he hasn’t been quarantining. He makes it sound like if I’m not willing to go see him might as well breakup. Any advice?

Don't mean to be rude. Plz tell me if this is rude. But whats your religion? Assuming it's ok to ask since we're all anon. I'm a non-practicing but was born in a Muslim country. Agnostic maybe?🤷🏻‍♂️

Can I sue a company for posting my address on social media (cont’d)

Reasons to stay in NYC? Kinda feel really sad living here.

Praying no one brings up the election in our team meeting today.

My 70+ year old dad just got on Facebook and kind of rocking it! He is just on there spreading the positivity. Ha ha

And he only had to create 4 accounts to do it.

Any off beat documentaries to recommend? Just watched the Barkley Marathons.

What internet speed do u pay for to be confident you can work at home properly?

Ugh I wanted to take my son to see a UFC match in person. Just so happens there is one in November at Madison Square Garden - great right! I knew the tickets would be expensive, was willing to pay $400 to $500 a ticket as long as they were decent. The cheapest ticket in the whole arena, basically top row so you can’t see crap, is $506 before you start with the fees!!! Am I wrong or is that just bananas???? Oh well, pay per view it is, maybe have some friends over. Just complaining… happy Friday!

What random skills do you possess that can help during the pandemic? I'll go first-

I can make soap, beer and mead from home. Im gonna be drunk and clean!

Any cat owners experience hot spots? My cat has been getting them 2-3 times a year for 2 years now and I'm worried there's an underlying cause

I bought my boyfriend the Valve Index for Christmas. What are some games I should buy him?

Everyone in my firm try so hard to be politically correct😍feel so included.

What % of your free time do you spend at home compared to outside the house? (exclude time spent at work or sleeping)

Am I the only who’s embarrassed when someone asks what do i do? Im an auditor btw

Anyway to slim down legs; just want to smooth out this massive imbalance that the body seems to favor to the downside

Why are boomers strolling around outside running errands? Is it time to reopen schools and fire up the economy?