So my brother doesn't talk to me for 6 months.   (I had offered my lake house guest space to my cousin who said yes instead of my brother who didn't know if he could come nor when he might know if he could come, how unfair of me).

On Thanksgiving day mom arrives and tells me that brother might come by in an hour.  He had ignored my invite weeks ago.  (Uh ok, sure).

Continued...

My manager had been saying some REALLY over the line stuff in standup meetings. Truly inappropriate details about his sexuality and also some stuff about my religion etc. We (the software developers) told HR. They spoke to him and he stopped being a weirdo but the company never addressed it further with us. Is that normal? I’ve never been a part of an HR investigation before and I don’t know what to expect

Has anyone changed areas of law while in-house? If so, how did you do it and what was that like?

How do I negotiate a later start date? I have offer in hand and am coming from big law but would really like 8 weeks off between jobs because I am burnout and need time to rest. Is 8 weeks excessive?

For EY peeps: how much do firsts year seniors make in NYC?

Hi moms!! Getting induced tonight with my first… so excited, nervous and a little terrified! Would love to hear any advice you have!

(FWIW, I’m 41+3 so we’ve waited as long as we can to try to let things happen naturally…)

Any recommendations for a good exec / recruiting firm in Toronto for a SM in tech strategy looking for industry opportunities? Tx

What and all the way to get IT job abroad from India.

I have a 5K learning/ conference budget to use by end of year!!! I know I know, I left it too late! Any recommendations? I can only use it on one thing and if I can’t find anything I think it’ll be the design sprint workshop ($500) please help! I’d love some certification program or something related to inclusive design or mixed method research

So I have my bachelors in early childhood education (non licensure) and I just got my masters in special education with a certificate in autism. I am not licensed but wondering what will a good step other then a special education assistant. I was thinking to work in the college district to be a student support service worker. Unless there are others that I haven't looked at and be able to support myself financially.

For those that trade/invest what has been your biggest play/gain so far in the volatile COVID market? How much is everyone up or down by?

I’ve been a project manager (delivery focused) for 8 years now and have worked across multiple companies / teams as I am a contractor. Lately I’ve been feeling really bored in my roles and not challenged enough. I’ve previously loved what I do but now I feel indifferent towards my role. I’m worried if I look for more senior PM roles I will feel the same. What other options could I explore and has anyone else had a similar experience?

I wanted to ask like I recently got a job in Wells Fargo and wanted to know two things WLB and growth opportunities.

Designation - Risk Analytics Consultant

Which location to choose from Hyderabad or Bangalore?

Please help.

Any one in DC do the Tony and Joe's NYE venue last night?

Hi what's the current CTC for consultant level 2?

first time home buyer. combined income of $205k with partner. looking to buy something in the $600k range in HCOL. will be putting 10% down. how much money beyond the $60k dp do i ACTUALLY need before pulling the trigger? between closing costs, maintaining an e-fund reserve, anything else i need to consider... assume no furnishing costs.

Kashiyama suits - anyone have experience?

Do you guys think it's common etiquette to get a conference room or a jit if you a planning to have a long conversation? There are currently 2 people yelling next to me on the phone. Two diff convers.

Any male 🐟 that can share the experience of starting alpha blockers? I take it at bedtime and feel like I have a head cold in the morning. Dizzy all day too.

At what point does it not make sense to buy/ build a bigger home? My husband dislikes our house immensely (was his with former wife) and wants to move. Only owes $180k on it, we’ve been together 6 years and thus I’d rather just remodel. It’s the only thing we disagree about - moving or staying. He doesn’t want to invest one more cent in this house.

53 here and thinking about the future - looking at a major decision point at 60 and then seeing where I am at that point. Opinions and plans on transitioning to “the next phase”?

Has anyone here ever tried negotiating “at will” employment terms in the US? I’m curious what specific terms folks have asked for and how the potential employer reacted.

Would you date a 30 year old? If so, why?

Anyone else have trouble separating who you are from what you do? I think a lot of our generation built our self identity around our work. If I take my work away, I'm not really sure who I am.

Do you use or have you used First Command Financial Planning? If so, what’s your experience with them?

Any thoughts on the put down, “Ok, Boomer”
??

What are the benefits of a trust in estate planning for a single person with assets around $2m?

At what age did you exit Consulting? Do you think all the traveling has affected your health adversely?

We're aiming to live long enough to spend it all. If we die younger there is a substantial estate and only nieces and nephews. I have three topics that I'm requesting your thoughts on before I engage an attorney;

How many of you have had to curse out our Millennial/Gen-Y friends about calling us old and inept. 

Feeling like my life is racing by being on the road 20 years, and saddens me that when I get home tonight my SO leaves on a business trip.

Do big4s have any history of offering early retirement packages?

At this point in career, would you take a step down in title to grab a transfer opportunity and get out of a toxic work environment ?

Anyone experience ageism of late?