PARENTS WANTED
I know this is the wrong platform to post this, but I don't know where else to turn. I am a 25-year-old female who lives in Pune. I am technically an orphan, and I have never felt what it's like to have a loving family.

I am not asking fr much. I jst need to feel loved and cared for a week. I promise I won't be a burden. I'll do whatever you ask of me. I will be the ideal daughter.

I know this is a big ask, but I am hoping that there are kind people out there who will NOT JUDGE

How to politely tell my partner stop spending too much time on playing video games? It was my false at first. I introduced Zelda breathe of the wild to her and now, she is hooked. She even played game when we had the movie night. I chose the her movie style but she let me to watch it alone and silently turned on the game, and played it while pretended to watch the movie with me. That’s not fun at all. What should I do? Any advice please?

When, or if you set time aside to take care of yourself or do something for yourself, what do you do? I'm realizing I don't really have any "healthy" ways of relaxing outside of work, so drop whatever you got. It's starting to affect my personal life and I'm worried I won't be able to have healthy relationships unless I can take care of myself first.

For those that are home grown (at least 2 levels) into the PPMD level, how has your relationship with juniors that you’ve been close to from the start evolved? Have you had to pull away from them (intentionally or not) or are you just as close? Is the saying “it’s lonely at the top” rung true for you?

I have pretty strong social phobia and am worried about making friends. I'm going to be working for an engineering company so I imagine I don't have to be really up on the latest trends or anything but how can I talk to people without making it sound unnatural?

Hi
Are there any couple pg/studio aprtment in pune wanna shift with my wife for some 3-4months.
Please help me with some suggestions..

Do friends ever dump you onto your therapist or psychiatrist or dismiss your valid, normal feelings as “oh did you tell your doctor about this?” I feel like they’re just shitty friends delegating off.

Originally from Italy, I've been out to anyone at my former jobs in Europe without ever worrying about the reactions of my coworkers. Now I'm Asia and just started a new job, but one of my colleagues (also an expat) made a very weird statement about gay people having more chances of developing cancers (?!?!?), so I feel a bit skeptical about talking about my private life... The problem is that anybody else seems to be so welcoming and open-minded, except for this one guy. Any advices?

Does anyone here work for Axiom or know someone who does and, if so, how difficult is it to stay fully engaged?

28, still haven't moved out of parents' home. Anyone else in similar situation?

How have you combated your fear of rejection? I fixate on such small things as when my friends, for example, reject plans I have made. This definitely makes me more averse to putting myself out there and makes me ruminate on past perceived failures, which are clearly not good for personal growth

If you loved your small independent broker dealer but they had just been acquired by a much larger corporation which does have benefits in terms, mostly, in technology, but you lose your “family” in the home office, what would you do and who would you look at if you were considering a change of your own?

ADVICE THREAD

Feel like sharing advice? Which info would have changed your life if you only had known back then?

Any kind of advice is accepted 😉

Important question! Any strategies for getting out of work zoom happy hours? Other than ignoring requests and not showing up, which has been my MO so far. But it’s getting a bit awkward.

Been seeing a guy for the past few months. Went to watch a movie on Netflix last night and saw that my ex is in a new series. Talk about mood killer. Now I can’t stop thinking about him 😞
He tends to pop in to my head at least once a month. How can I move past this?

Any other ladies get so frustrated by forced family set ups? I swear I only hear from my extended family when it’s about set ups and my marriage status. And usually it’s just them praising the guy and telling me to make it work since I’m getting old (early 30s) 🤦🏽‍♀️

So I have been seeing a guy for 4 months. We have a pay disparity.. he earns less than I do (by quite a bit). He has mentioned a few times that he’s worried I’ll get bored of him when I know he can’t afford the same things I can. I think we are beginning to move past this, but now he’s starting to mention things like ‘I am really broke this month’, and last weekend he told me his mum has lost her job and he’ll have to probably pay her rent. I have a lot of sympathy for his situation … tbc

How do you and your partner (married or not married) split financials?

I’ve been married in a Catholic Church before and now divorced but my now boyfriend says he wants to marry me in a Catholic Church someday. How do I even start a petition for that? Also is that possible to re-marry in a Catholic Church?

I'm plopped on the floor buzzed, single AF, surrounded by cats, and I have no regrets tonight.

Any significant differences in comp between the Big 4 FDD groups (specifically at senior level)? I’m hearing PWC pays the highest bonuses but not sure if there is any truth to that.

Tips for desk research heavy projects (lots of reading, processing and synthesising information): how do you do it? Are certain meds better/worse? Modafinil feels better for reading and processing info but stimulants better for focus and executing tasks.

In ey gds when mail will come for uploading docs before joining? What's are the documents need to upload? EY

Anyone in EY Divestiture Advisory Services? Trying to get a sense for what this is (besides what I can guess from the name). Is this in EY Parthenon?

What’s a reliable crypto broker that some would recommend? I’ve been using Coinbase Pro but I’m worried to keep investing with them because of their non existent customer service and if I might need support I probably won’t get help

Just wanted to confirm if we have an option for buyouts during the NP,is it normally negotiable to 30 days,how does it work?

Which one is better?

Infosys 13L + 1L joining bonus (11.7 is fixed) (location: Bangalore) in Development role

CTS 12.45 L (12L is fixed) (location: Bangalore) in Development role

Amazon 14L + 6 L joining bonus (location: Chennai) in Support role

I'm currently in support role and main reason for switch is to work in dev. Please suggest which offer i should take.

Current CTC 4.37 L, YOE 3.2

Looking to change career paths. Currently 1.5 years experience as a SAP consultant doing business analyst activities. I would like to transition to a data analyst role in industry. Any tips?

Raise your hand if you have to work over the weekend (even though the juniors under you don’t have to)?! ✋

Hi Fishers. Good Morning! I got offer in Citi. Can someone let me know whether we can go home and connect. Or we just need to stay in office until all call gets over. Do they provide laptops for new joiners. Citi

Hello! I’m a recently graduated MSc Criminology student looking for work. I don’t know where to start or what I’m even looking for, but I’m generally interested in criminology, cyber security (no coding experience) & doing research. I’m very social and friendly and enjoy working with people, would also like hybrid work so I can work from home at times.. Any tips as to which roles I should look for? Any specific companies I should look into? (Preferably UK based, but open to most of EU)

Can anyone tell me about which pharma/health companies OR agencies have great WFH/remote/flex policies? I feel like Glassdoor and Indeed don't highlight that enough when it's one of the things I care about the most.

In your opinion, which top firms offer the most support for Black accountants?

Hello, what is the maximum payout of the variable bonus? The offered package says it is 3 months of my salary but just wanted to know what is the usual hike and bonus?

Whatfix vs Gainsight! Which one is better for Customer Success role in terms of culture, perks, work-life balance?

I am looking for Saas companies in India that allow permanent remote.. Thanks in advance!

Offer: 40LPA + 2L Joining bonus,

Current: 30LPA

YOE: 8+

Product based company. Customer success role. Is this inline with current salary slabs for customer success? Please suggest

What are career paths you can look at after being in CS for a while?

Hey folks,

I am having approx 9 years of experience in sales and key account management. Now I want to upscale my skills to grow financially and vertically in my career and want to learn new things which can help me in this.
Having sound knowledge of IT things. which course or area of learning i have to target which compliment my previous experience also.

I have in mind like Marketing strategy and analytics, Customer success in cloud.

Request Your suggestions on this.