Program manager who’s been with my currently B4 for about 9 months. The consulting culture is killing me and my marriage, how long do I have to suck it up before I can exit without taking a step back?

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There is no specific time. If it is fucking with your mental health and relationship look for exit ops now. You should know that not every project has the same "culture". Maybe while looking for exit ops look for new projects/roles. Maybe if you find one fulfilling the other problems will resolve themselves.

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If you received a bonus then I would wait at least 3 months before you quit.

I did not receive a signing bonus.

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