Should I be offended: taking a picture, me and another black colleague. In the middle two white colleagues, one a partner, who says he feels like he is in an Oreo. Awkward. This partner has been an helpful in pushing D&i but think he’s too comfortable…

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No. I woulda said the same shit. What’s offensive about being the chocolate part of the Oreo?

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Would you have been offended if the other black person said it?

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Oh well I do have a twisted sense of humor

You can calmly say “whoa, too soon” to suggest “dude wtf?” Without actually saying it.

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I personally don’t think so - I mean the reality is we have different skin shades and so taking offense to a joke to reflect that is extremely sensitive imo

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Part of me would have let out something along the lines of "Me too... the good, strong part is on the outside, looking in on the fluffy stuff."
Then, after the uncomfortable haha moment, is say something like "sorry, I know Oreo jokes don't go over well. "

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.. and yes, it's a little passive aggressive.

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