Since the industry is small and everyone knows each other, how do you navigate leaving a place when your old manager knows your new manager?

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You give notice and don’t say where you’re going. Then, after you are at the new agency and your old manger finds out where, if they share any bad press about you, he/she will be seen as a sore loser.

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Totally depends on the situation. One of my previous managers ended up becoming someone I worked with at my last office job. We parted ways on good terms. It's good to remind yourself that they will say/act however they want to, and you can only control your own responses/actions.

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Just don’t do anything bad that would go viral on YouTube and you’ll be fine.

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Depends on whether you have a good relationship with your manager or not.

In this environment a former manager talking bad about a former employee will skit make that a manger look and most of the time.

Unless you use a current manager as a reference without telling them or sometime you don’t have much to worry about if you leave on even neutral terms.

If they’re friends, the new manager will for sure ask your old manager about you but YOU get to create the first impression so be confident. If I were your old manager, I might be more annoyed at the new manager (her friend) for poaching you.

One of the distinct advantages of being an African American working in general market shops is that literally none of your white coworkers remembers working with you once you’re gone. As such, you’re free to say what you want to say to whom ever and not feel like it’ll hurt your career because in a few months time, most of your former coworkers literally won’t be able to identify you or remember your name.

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