Sometimes there is this voice in my head asking me "Are you going to DATE anybody?" and all I can ever think to say is "Whocan *I* date?"

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Oh, relax.

I don't know, that seems kind of sketchy. I don't want to get sucked into actually doing those things.

lol listen to the voice and what do you mean who can you dare is it that bad ?

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