Started dating a new girl with the same social circle as my ex. Angered a couple people when we started dating, but now realizing we're not compatible. Hoo boy this conversations going to suck.

How do you casually date? Recently moved to a new city I didn’t know anyone in, met 2 girls I like and have gone on a few dates with but not sure I like them enough yet to like commit. Is it wrong to go on dates with both until I figure it out? Not sure what to do, getting into relationships makes me feel trapped and unsure for some reason

For the F 🐠 - is it really that hard out there in your city? What’s been your biggest challenge with finding the right guy? Any regrets not making it work w/ an ex or friend zone guy from the past?

Any 35+ male 🐠 want to chat and see where things go? 33F in a smaller East Coast US city but very willing to travel to meet in person if we actually hit it off.

Looking for a female date to go to bemelmans bar tonight
I am a 35M Brit Indian. I have only 2 abs and great sense of humor. Also I’m only 5”5. Lord blessed me with superior quant skills for the lack of vertical reach. Thank you.

29m. Any single f fishes in Sacramento interested in meeting up? I’m here till Thursday

Have any of you met anyone from the group? If not, would you be interested in some matchmaking? 🙃

Been with my gf for 3 years, and she has vaginismus. So sexually frustrated

Do you set up any standards when you date with anybody? I’m currently dating with a Mexican man. He is older than me 10 years old (I thought 6 when we first met). His job is construction and made less than me. He is insecure about the money but I’m not really. But, the one bothering me is that he is illegal immigrant. Other than that, He is a cure, nice and independent guy. When dating, he split money/ or want to cover for me. He cares about people around. I am happy but not sure about LT.

What are your favorite places for 1st/2nd/3rd/4th/5th dates in the Bay Area? Please share some date ideas other than restaurants :) thanks!

Bored on a Sunday night, any female fish feel like chatting

Any people looking to date in Atlanta ? 40 F

I met someone out the other day and had great chemistry. We've been texting and he just proposed a first date at Rise. 😔 Anyone else not enjoy having dates at gay bars?

“You have a good looking face. But your body is absolute junk."

Moving to Boston from NYC and work in Cambridge. I’ve been recommended Back Bay, South End, and Seaport. Where do you recommend? Where is best for dating life?

Texting someone I met on a dating app and they are adamant that text messages can’t be admitted in court as evidence. I haven’t yet told them I’m a lawyer lol. They work in tech but of course, they know all about the rules of evidence because they studied criminology at community college. 🤯

Could anyone suggest a good ladies pg in Marathalli area? Preferably single sharing or double.

29M from Kerala, living in Chicago. Looking to find someone local to seriously date. Please DM if you’re interested!

Actually starting to think I’ll be single forever. The apps go nowhere. How are you guys meeting people right now?

Started talking to this guy through group a group telegram and one day he offered to pay for my lunch as I had helped him out with something. Since then he has been offering to pay for my dinners, salon visits, shopping etc and I have accepted 3-4 times. I am in a steady relationship and my boyfriend doesn’t know about this. The other guy just says he likes paying for my stuff and there’s no agenda. Is this a little weird?

31 M, 6'3 looking for a serious relationship and a potential soulmate.

Working in a start-up and love having an impact on the product. Things have been too chaotic tho. Thinking of recruiting for a big tech company but not sure if it's for me- anyone willing to chat?

Hearing in a bunch of places on cycle starting to kick off. My firm getting ready at any sec to begin interviewing. For any interested candidates, would be prepped and ready to go at any time! Best of luck to all!

Thank you for creating this bowl! I’m very new to the PM role as I’m trying to transition from management consulting. Just finished all rounds of interviews at Google yesterday for a PM role and not feeling very confident. Hopefully I hear something back in a week or so.

After how many days of joining, are the user IDs created in Mindtree systems?

Hi Fishes,

How much should be the salary of BI/DW senior manager havin 12+ yoe as per market. Please let me know.

Considering UK has entered recession, will it be a wise decision to switch to UK banks like Natwest? IT role..

Is opening a boxing gym worth it?

Does MBB have restrictions on what stocks you can own?

What’s the best website to find potential roommates for an August/September lease?

Does nagarro send any rejection mail after the interview?

How long does it take for nagarro to get back ?

I just need some Brugal rum, Aventura or Romeo Santos songs on repeat all night…

How many years did it take you to get promoted to senior software engineer?

Any tips for organizing a bedroom, closet, dresser & bathroom? My teen has IADHD, and low executive functioning. Her room looks like a land mine. Clean clothes are mixed in with dirty, her desk is a disaster, she won’t let go of clothes she’s outgrown, drawers are open with clothes hanging out. A therapist said to close her door if we don’t want to see it but it’s more than that. She needs this important life skill & I don’t know how to help. Easier to organize w/o her but that’s not a solution.

Best carry-on luggage for the female road warrior? Need room for work clothes, gym clothes, pair of jeans, jewelry, make-up bag, shoes...

Are there any additional deductions from the first salary of new hires?

Does your office recognize admin appreciation day? Does your executive do anything to show their thanks?

Hi Fishes

Want your opinion. how much base pay can be expected for a senior associate position in Technology Consulting for someone with ~7 years of experience.

Capgemini Chennai joiners, do you get a laptop or desktop?

Do you have any say in the reading program that your school adopts? What program do you use?

I saw a comment on here from someone referencing a book about organisational Psychology and working with different types of personalities, but I can’t find the comment/thread now. Do any of you have recommendations on this topic?

FAANG ranking: Google, Netflix, Facebook, Apple, Amazon. Is this correct?

How do I check my utilization?

Is there a hard limit on how frequent you can apply in a year at FAANG? (For instance: Amazon, Google)

Also, how many positions are we allowed to apply?
There are just many positions at different teams right.

Anyone have a test bank for the Azure 900 cert or have any recommendations on how to pass it asap. Also looking into AWS cloud practitioner

I have a consulting/PE interview on Friday, please recommend consulting books or sites to read. Need to speak consulting language

Suggestions for a good podcast to help me wind down at night? Can’t be anything too thrilling but needs to be interesting enough. Having trouble sleeping and want to try this out! Thanks :-)

READY TO PARTYY!!!

Do vacation hours accrue while on parental leave?

SUV Suggestions please?

Currently use Nissan Altima. It’s old and has engine issues. So, can’t travel long distances (more than 2 hour drive) with my 1 year old. We are not car fanatics and definitely not looking for a fancy/expensive option. 2019 or later, $20k budget but can go higher if there is a valid suggestion, value for money option.

Anyone have any recommendations for home office ergonomic desk chairs?

Can senior associates/consultants assign work to associates? Or is that manager job?

Best stepping stone to get into MBB? MBA vs experience at Big 4 / other second-tier consulting firms?

For people with clean records -what’s the rationale for waiting until a background check to clear before giving notice? I keep seeing it mentioned but I what’s the risk? To my knowledge it’s not like a cleared background check protects you from your new firm rescinding an offer…is the goal to minimize gaps between paychecks?

When you realize that you have an amazing view from your hotel room and just saw it when you're packing and checking out.

Deloitte fish: I’m an alum trying to do some retirement planning. I was an SM2 vested in the pension plan (I worked in DTTL for 7 years ending 2013) and want to find out what my actual benefits will be and at what age. I have no paperwork and 800-Deloitte does not seem to have a way to route me to the right people. Does anyone have a human contact or procedure that can help me get this info?

Employee law question:

In the state of CA for a full time non-exempt role. If fired without warning (no previous warnings/feedback) ⚠️ for "performance" (although performance was arguably good) or actually "team fit" (politics), do you have any case or legal standing?

For those that invested in real estate rentals, how did you systematically approach finding a good property? Realized most of my stock investments was just gambling and I don’t want to gamble on a RE investment. Read a few books but none of them go into how to actually find a good deal/city.

Today is a huge struggle. I want to do nothing. 😢

"To the windowwwwws! To the walls!" Don't let the suit hood you on my rap game. "Aaa skeet skeet..." 👊🙌👊