Thoughts on men wearing earrings in office/work environments?
I know it’s traditionally been viewed as “unprofessional”, but is this starting to phase out as firms become more progressive?

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in 2010 i took them off for the interview for an internship but the partner noticed i had holes in my ears and told me i can wear them if i want. then we talked about how i break dance lol. i didnt get the job :(

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I think as long as someone looks like they took appropriate time and care to put themselves together with whatever clothing/accessories/etc they choose to put on, I don’t think that most companies would care. Especially Deloitte or any other big 4

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Pretty much the perspective I have now too.
I’ve always taken out my earrings as a measure of playing it safe, but I don’t think they inhibit my ability to look/be professional so likely going to start wearing them more often.

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Are your earrings big diamond studs?

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As a staff 8+ years ago I had studs. No one cared. I’m sure the older ppmd might’ve found it odd but they have since retired. I no longer wear studs out of laziness (also don’t spend the time styling my hair like I used too…. and am now married and 20lbs heavier. The joys of aging lol)

You know what they say, the bigger the hoop the bigger the….

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The bigger the salary, I’m assuming. Commodity prices are insane these days

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I don’t think I’d even notice if someone was wearing earrings. Does it matter? Wear what you want

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