Unlike past generations, Millennials’ midlife crises center on meaning and engagement. How do you navigate the pressures of finding purpose amidst life’s responsibilities?

I just want to buy a fancy car still lol

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I honestly try not to think about it lol. If I dwell on meaning and purpose too long, I wind up getting depressed. I'd rather just keep my head down, go about my work and try to live in the present as best I can.

I wouldn’t say I like past generations. I think past generations didn’t have the options younger generations have, and therefore they kinda had to decide to just suck it up. It’s only bc of past generations that progress has been made. Finding purpose also comes in a lot of different shapes and sizes. Having a big family was typically the purpose for older generations-

I'm not a big fan of all these generational stereotypes, but some of them make sense. I think earlier generations weren't as focused on themselves, perhaps because they survived wars and economic conditions that were quite challenging. I think a lot of people today live in a bubble, cut off from actual news but obsessed with nonsense and clickbait on social media. So they may think they're looking for meaning, but who knows what it is they're really looking for.

Be present in the here and now and ground yourself to that frequently. The past is gone and can't be changed. The future hasn't happened yet and can't be predicted.

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