Unsure how my manager expects me to get work done on straight exhaustion. We just got a new PM so I’ve picked up the slack, I’m on boarding the new guy, covering for 2 people on PTO and trying to manage 60 projects. The work needs to get done and I’m trying my best. And then he goes we can set up a call Sunday.
I’ve barely left my house all week and was supposed to go camping. Since when are weekends fair game too?

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Just say you are away this weekend and won't be back until Sunday night and suggest call first thing Monday. You need to set the tone with the new guy or he'll be taking advantage of you always. Boundaries

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Say you are unavailable this weekend.

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Weekends are never fair game. Push back, you have no connectivity this weekend and will connect first thing Monday. You can do this!

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Just decline the invite. Set the boundary now and make it clear you are not going to be working on the weekends.

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60 projects?🧐

It’s a portfolio of work and I’m expected to know the status on them all…

You need a new job your boss has no boundaries

60 projects? You must be over-exaggerating

It is a portfolio of work and I’m on the PMO. I wish I was.

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