Was your parent in finance How did that affect you growing up?

Ranked in terms of excitement when I come on Thursdays:

3. Wife
2. Kids
1. Dog

Hi guys

This question may not be related. However I wanted to know from personal and family point of view how it is like to relocate from India and live abroad .
Let's say Family consists of husband , wife and a kid . I understand we will get good facilities, education, cleanliness , good air etc , however I wanted to check whether people gel up easily in the new environment? Don't they feel loneliness/ difficult to adjust? Do they look for similar asian nationalities to kill boredom?

How do I figure out spending with my SO? Initially I was paying for 90% of stuff (no actual bills, just going out). I talked to her and said we need to be more even. She was never proactive. She kind of got offended but we ended on a good note to split things. It went well for a couple weeks but now it's back to normal. She never takes out her card and only venmos me if I send her the request. She lets Venmos sit for weeks before paying them. I still let a lot of things slide.

I spent an hour today sitting with one of my patients getting a chemo infusion. Lonely and weird time to not have his wife in there with him

If you and your girlfriend went to law school together, were you together the night the bar results came back? What if one of you doesn’t pass / and the other feels like they can’t celebrate?

Anyone cheated on spouse/significant other while traveling? Just a fact check..if you have cheated post age/sex

I am going through a divorce right now. I currently have a (my) family member stay with me to help take care of my children (until the divorce is finalized). My ex is oppose to my family member staying in the same house and decided to serve a notice to vacancy. However, I live in CA (community property state), and both of our names are on the title. Does my ex have any legal grounds to take such action to evict my visiting family member?

Have you walked away from somebody you loved? And why?

My marriage is struggling and we have to pack up the kids and fake it till we make it with my in laws for most of their Christmas break. I don't want a divorce but things are not good, and it's hard to pretend they are even in front of the kids. Looking for advice I guess, or just a kind word. Really don't want the in-laws finding out and trying to put their two cents in, and neither does she.

Engaged and married folk - how did you know you were ready to propose? Any creative suggestions for the perfect quarantine proposal?

At first I wondered why everyone in my office was married to/dating each other. But now it makes sense, they're the only people you ever freaking see 😐

Should people wait till marriage to be intimate? If so, when should they get married? If not, when would it be acceptable?

Question: Girl friends parents finally came over for a ristha. Everything went great or so I thought but now she wants to time to think about moving forward. The pain point she brought up is that we are in different states and she is feeling pressed. Although in that time she has started communicating less and I literally had to beg her to get on face time. My gut says she wants to end it but unsure. Any advice ? It's been 2 weeks since this event

My wife is in sales at Mercedes and she has been averaging $200k a year and growing YoY. She loves her job, however she works long days and barely gets time off. We plan on having kids within the next year or two, and it’s highly u likely that she’ll be able to keep her current gig. We want to find a career that allows her to work remote or that at least gives her a better work life balance so that she can see her kids grow up. Should she get certifications to give her a shot at adtech?Too late?

Feeling a deep void in close human connection after letting go a relationship that was lacking a future (I was interested in something more, he was unsure). Can’t stop thinking of reaching out and need strength to just stay with the loneliness and have hope for the better times. Would appreciate support. It’s been 2 weeks but I feel bouts of extreme sadness and desire to have someone to share my life and days with.

Opinions on career clerkships? Especially with a two year old and wanting another child eventually.

Filing for marriage gc, does the sponsoring spouse require a copy of birth certificate or is passport fine?

How do people make friends here? I have the ones i grew up with and a couple I made in the last couple of years (neighbors/through mutual friends) but I generally find that people here just stick with their social circles

Every night for like the past month I’ve been getting incredibly emotional about adulthood. I miss the lack of responsibility, the simplicity of life, friends were always around, and less pressure to be successful.

I’m 3 years out of college now so it’s not like I just started doing this stuff, but I am feeling the exact same feeling as I did when I first started work and just wanted to be back in college. I know I just need to grow up and accept that’s how life is but it’s incredibly upsetting

Any informatica IDQ developer here

I have to tell my parents that I got engaged this weekend. They haven’t been taking the coming out well over the last year (i.e have isolated themselves from their community, screaming and crying when I’m on the phone with mom, dad hasn’t spoken to me since July). I’m incredibly nervous about this conversation. Going to have it in about two hours. Any words of advice?

Hey Zsers

Can somebody tell me the appraisal cycle in ZS ? Is it once a year or twice ?

How to refer someone for a role at JPMC?
Not general refferal, but for a specific role?

What is current salary range in market for 7.5 YOE in SAP ABAP HANA?

Best recruiters for client side roles?

Which companies have best WLB, least stressed DS/DA roles? I’ve been suffering from some immunology issues and stress from work would worsen it, therefore I want to move to a company/role with good benefit (esp. healthcare) and great WLB (little chance of PIP, etc). Doesn’t have to be high-paying, as long as it can support my life (single) and long-term medical cost. Thanks in advance.

how do we get out?! i’ve been doing office work in a grocery store for too long… this was supposed to help me transition out of hospitality but it feels like i’m going to be stuck in a grocery store for the rest of my career
i guess i just need to voice my frustrations. it’s not that i hate my job or the field, i don’t. i’m just feeling extremely overwhelmed and discouraged i think. does anyone really, truly enjoy what they do in retail/hospitality?? needing some positivity

Hi Folks , ey hire for technical domain and then assign non technical projects. Does it happens with everyone or some people ?

And is there any way to shorten the 3 months notice period in ey ?

Hi
Can anyone please refer me at ellucian for cloud engineer I AWS & devops role
Req ID: 3000

Will be available to join in next 12 days

What tool/ paid website do you use for roadmap planning? Looking for something to present to the uppers.

Any copywriters (in branding/otherwise) currently report to a strategist instead of a CD? Trying to have an open mind about them approving copy without judgement but it’s like pulling teeth for me.

Looking for a recommended software to scrape data from ZoomInfo.

Thoughts?

Hi anyone from CGI Canada here. Need referral . Please let me know if you can help.

I got into marketing because I thought it would be an opportunity to make good money in a field where I could still exercise my creativity, but I’ve found it to be extremely stifling and bogged down by bureaucracy. Does it ever get better?

How much time it takes for Barclays to get back. I interviewed for full stack profile yoe: 5.6 cleared all the rounds 3 weeks back still no call from HR. I asked 25 cctc: 19.

🐠 fam - looking for recommendations for men’s cross trainers with good ankle support. Any brands or models you particularly like?

Best ways to create a realistic, healthy work environment?

What are typical company policies in regards to religious observances? Would I have to use a vacation day?

Changing things up a bit: Name one thing that you like/admire about your MD...

When your best is never good enough 🙏

Bankers who stayed past associate level, why?

West coasters - do you feel like you get screwed on hours? E.g. get up early for an east coast call but, not like your day ends any earlier

At what age did you realize that relationships > career moves? I feel like that was always my value but when a choice came down, I picked career. Looking back 3 years later, I regret it.

How do you phase out screen time when you have to be connected all the time? I like the idea of digital minimalism after work hours, but I don't truly have any after work hours.

What role/s do your friends have that you're most envious of? Starting to do research on my next move, and would like to know what others have top of mind....

Any CAIA holders out there? How have you generally been viewed?

Best online brokerage platform? Fund selection and trade expenses

How much are you contributing to your 401k?

If you could rename your firm to make it more representative of said firm, what would it be?

What practical steps should your firm take to improve employee retention?

Does anyone have any experience with taking additional classes after undergrad to raise gpa?

Today's one of those rare days where I thought "this job isn't that bad." But maybe because it's Friday

Any of you in FinTech coverage? Part of TMT or FIG?

NYC struggles: 1st paycheck to rent, 2nd to pay off credit cards. Almost none for savings. Maybe it's time to rethink my lifestyle of drinks and debauchery ✌️

Chase Sapphire - still the best out there?

What's your "I'm in Finance stereotype" moment?